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The Winterizer:
Natural COVID19 & Flu Prevention
Kill Coronavirus On Contact
All-Natural REAL Disinfecting Recipes Spray & Vegetable Wash
Instant Chill-Out Techniques
ClassicFetish Resources Stimulations
The Winterizer 2020 ~ COVID19 + Flu Edition
Every year, I remind the people on My Mailing Lists to prepare for the cold and cold & flu season with a natural preventive that is centuries (perhaps, even millennia) old.
The Winterizer is one of those “old wives’ remedies” that works wonders. Before I began doing this treatment EVERY October, I suffered with 2-3 really bad colds and a few mini-annoyances per year, EVERY year. IMMEDIATELY, the very first year that I “Winterized,” I did not suffer with wretched colds and was able to prevent a cold from coming on before it got me! Now, I barely get a sniffle during the entire winter!
I swear by this NATURAL treatment and highly encourage you to . (I have also given this remedy to My pets — definitely check with your veterinarian to make sure that your pets can safely ingest this mixture.)
My COVID19 Self-Health Treatments: Kill Coronavirus On Contact Naturally
Reminder:
WEAR A MASK in public places, including hallways; elevators; and laundry rooms. And wash your hands.
If you have a problem with that, may you soon have a reason to take this pandemic seriously and evolve your responsibility.
Think about what I just said and how I said it.
Giving Goddess that I Am, I have prepared a summary of well-researched information for COVID19 safety with recipes tokill coronavirus on contact naturally ~ click below for instant access.
Included in My document are links to sources of this information and more so you can do the research for yourself… And you know who you are who will need to do that.
You can read this document online and download it — all links are active in both documents and I have included links with good deals to purchase ingredients. Hurry! ‘Tis the season that folks stock up on winter remedies.
An update to this research is included in info and include:
nutritional supplement recommendations and the importance of Vitamins A, C & D particularly during COVID19; and
a free ebooklet to naturally boost your immune system by Cynthia Li, MD.
Whatever you do, don’t be — or continue to be — a “covidiot.”
Instant Chill-Out Techniques
Especially during this COVID19 extended period of angst and this abominable election, everyone needs to CALM DOWN and stay calm.
Self-Control is the ONLY control there is. EVERYTHING is a choice; We usually choose the lesser suffering… or so We think. The bottom line is: You are either in control of Your own destiny or You are controlled by how you give your power away.
The BEST way to discipline yourself to maintain personal responsibility is without drugs, alcohol, or other substances to rely on. It’s difficult with Big Pharma’s mind control-drug dealers in charge of health and well-being information and access. However, YOU DO HAVE THE POWER to take your health and well-being into your own hands — literally!
I offer this technique that has scientific backup, as well as My personal experience to attest to how well it can work if you work it.
Tapping interrupts psycho-kinetic patterns (conscious/subconscious-physical) that create chemical responses in Our bodies which We interpret as stress, fear, panic, confusion, depression, etc. The technique then permits you to re-pattern your response by identifying and acknowledging your process that triggers the negative responses. With practice and choice, you can trigger positive chemistry, emotions, and responses.
Best of all:
you can learn Tapping in under 4 minutes;
you can enjoy free, Tapping scripts and meditations; and
anyone, any age can do it!
Imagine if better parents taught their children to be in charge of their emotions instead of being allowed to act out… Imagine how much better your life would have been if you had that control when you were a kid?
COVID19 & “The Winterizer” Natural Cold & Flu Prevention New research to boost your immune system against COVID19 & the flu…”The Winterizer” is one of those “old wives’ remedies” that works wonders. I swear by this treatment and highly encourage you to give yourself this gift.
Because I care, I share. I have done quite a bit of research to protect Myself and the “covidiots” I have to deal with during this COVID19 plague. DOWNLOAD natural, disinfecting recipes including a moisturizing, hand-sanitizer and a vegetable wash with a key ingredient used in hospitals for pre-surgery scrubs.
Tips and Tools to include in your Play Bag for the safest and most excellent Play!
PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay careful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.
I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
The Contents page of AskMssDidi.comhas summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish!
I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely, check it out!
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Special Edition
My COVID19 Self-Health Treatments:
Kill Cornavirus On Contact Naturally
Touching Base
Yes, it has been a LONG time… This was necessary to rid barbarians from My Domain and let them think it was their choice. Those who know Me know that I meditate every day and I do believe in Magick and Karma — this works very well for Me!
I am a Beauty Fetishist; I am blessed to be able to enjoy beauty in so many things; and when creeple insist on being ugly, I create ways for them to not want to be around Me. That’s how you keep “unwanteds” from wanting to be in your realm.
You’re welcome for that How To Manage Your Domain Workshop Tip. Details to come!
Anyway… I was just about to launch My new Events & Spaces when COVID-19 forced all ye people to make dramatic changes.
It is your choice whether you flow or fail during this “Time In Time Out.” Choose wisely.
I have prepared a very well-researched, detailed, easy-to-understand document on natural recipes with the same antifungal-antimicrobial ingredient used for hospital pre-surgery disinfecting and I’ve made it available for FREE. I’ve also included resources to deal with social isolation and make it work for you. See below.
NOTE: I have a new mailing list system.
If you are on My Mailing List, be certain to check your spam folders and add the new email address as directed in the email I just sent.
My COVID19 Self-Health Treatments: Kill Coronavirus On Contact Naturally
Now, about this COVID19 situation: Are you seeing this “quarantine” as a curse or a gift?
My Sadist Self is thrilled at the suffering of all of those people who are having isolation traumas because they don’t like their own company. They don’t want to be with themselves (yet somehow think others should tolerate them)! MUAHAHAHAHAA!
My Giving Goddess Self sends energy for everyone to use this “GIFT of Time In Time Out” to reconnect with your REAL Truth (without that ego distortion) and brave becoming your best self.
Social Isolation Tip: I know that the more you are grateful for, the more you will have to be grateful for. So, I am grateful to live in this internet age and to have well-functioning devices so that I can handle My businesses, My family care, and keep Myself amused! Check out Feel Good & Empowered: Practice Gratitude.
Giving Goddess that I Am, I have prepared a summary of well-researched information for COVID19 safety with recipes tokill coronavirus on contact naturally ~ click below for instant access.
Included in My document are links to sources of this information and more so you can do the research for yourself… And you know who you are who will need to do that.
You can read this document online (internal document links are active) and download it (all links active).
Tips and Tools to include in your Play Bag for the safest and most excellent Play!
PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay careful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.
I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
The Contents page of AskMssDidi.comhas summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish!
I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely, check it out!
By clicking on any links contained herein, you agree to the terms providedhereand that you are of legal age and not offended by the material contained in these locations.
First Step News
I Am Now To Be Called “Mss. Didi*”
My Fetish Evolution
Why I Don’t Do Thanksgiving
Prep For NEW Soirees (I Mean It!)
Really READ: How To Attend My Events
10 Domina101 Tips VIDEO
No Regrets ~ Ask Mss Didi*
My Fetish Evolution: Stage 1
~ Because I Love My Fetish Reality ~ Why I Don’t Do Thanksgiving ~ Seriously, PREPARE for My New Soirees (idiot-free zone)! ~“No Regrets: How To” ~ Ask Mss Didi* ~ClassicFetish Resources ~Stimulations
Being The Change I Want To See In The World
My Fetish Evolution: Phase 1
For more than a decade , as I’ve watched sleaze become increasingly synonymous with “Fetish” and the rise of dangerous kinksters tarnish The Scene, I contemplated changing MY Title of Mistress — which I earned and was bestowed upon Me by My Fetish Family in a beautiful ceremony — to remove association of My Excellence from fakers-shakers-takers-noise-makers.
As I’ve mentioned, the only reason I produce Fetish Events is because I don’t like what others are doing. And because money is not My god, My Events are charity fundraisers. which adds the cherry-on-top of MY Enjoyment of MY Fetish Fun. I am a Giver and interested only in those who know how to receive and reciprocate.
At this point in time, and particularly, in New York City, it has become necessary for Me to launch a full-scale, Fetish Evolution to bring back integrity, intelligence, elegance, respect, and excellence to The Scene with a REAL focus on being safe, sane, and consensual without question. Because I love My Fetish Reality, this Fetish Evolution must begin with Me. So, I have released emotional attachment to a Title that no longer serves Me.
From now on, I am to be called, “Mss Didi.”
“Mss” is the evolution of the devalued term, “Mistress,” back to ClassicFetish and forward to define a New Era of Fetish Quality.
Throughout My lifetime, My Fetish Enjoyments and identity as a Quality Fetishist has made Me feel thrilled to be alive! I want to feel thrilled, excited, and delighted again about engaging with a community of Quality Fetishists Who Are On My Level — people who:
Are educated and continue to educate themselves in technique and mind-body-spirit health to offer and gain the best in and from their Fetish Experiences;
Are well-mannered; self-controlled; self-aware; and interested in contributing to Excellence for all involved;
Desire to associate with others to be pleasant and create good times; and
Know their worth and are generous with themselves and others.
I was a little girl the first time I saw THIS scene from Tommy The Movie by The Who. It was a defining moment in My Life and it is one of the best representations of how I feel when I indulge in My Fetish Enjoyments. My goal is to feel this way in My NYC Fetish Fun again! That’s the incomparable, Ann Margret indulging in bubbles, baked beans, and chocolate…
Soirees
In the last issue of My Newsletter, I mentioned that due to the many, many and increasing in numbers of good, Fetish folks being attacked and shut-down by pathetic manipulators who are allowed to go unpunished and can easily affect YOU, My Rules and Policies for My Events continue to attract the trust of even more and more respectable and responsible people for private adventures. AND I made inference to a Private Members Fetish Club where you ARE safe — both physically and personally — and you know that you will associate with the type of Fetishists that you want to be with and whom you can trust.
In the works are a few easy events that I am scheduling for after the “Horror-days” of shopping hell are over. So, look for announcements soon; enjoy whatever you celebrate; and be kind and respectful of what others celebrate, too!
Why I Don’t Do Thanksgiving
It’s that time of year and, earlier than ever before — even before Halloween — We are bombarded by holiday commercials and commercialism. So, time for a laugh and some serious insight into what We put Ourselves through for tradition…
Originally written November 25, 2009
First, My many thanks to all of the wonderful people who invited Me to their Thanksgiving feasts! It was so thoughtful and gracious of them and I consider it quite an honor to be asked to share their dinners with them. Really, I am truly aware of how blessed I am to be cared for by so many. (To those who invited Me and read this, I expect you to be laughing at most of it as you do! Be certain to invite Me to other gatherings, though!)
So, as I politely declined, I waited a day or two and then told My real reasons for not doing Thanksgiving:
1) I am predominantly vegetarian and I have not eaten turkey for more than 20 years. Since any type of meat or poultry in food will make Me ill, I always say that I’m a bummer at Thanksgiving dinners, but the truth is that I’m bummed at the boring salad that awaits Me, or worse, at the cook who thinks a “little bit of” whatever won’t “hurt” Me until I’m vomiting… and attempting to make it look like an accident while I aim it at the favorite rug or couch…
2) I don’t like making people feel uncomfortable in their domains because I am not participating in the gluttony-fest. Aside from the fact that people always feel sorry for Me that I don’t eat “meat” while I feel sorry for them that they do, I have to endure the, “that’s how you stay in that shape” conversations. This inevitably comes from the fattest person at the gathering, speaking with that second piece of pie in hand.
3) Since I usually have to eat before I go to Thanksgiving dinner to ensure that I don’t get hungry, what’s the sense in going out if I’ve already cooked and can stay home and watch the football game? And if I watch the game at someone’s home, I’m usually the only woman with all the males and the females get their feathers ruffled more than usual when I’m in a room. Little do they know ~ or maybe they do know ~ that the only thing I would want their men to do is grovel at My feet with tributes.
4) There are usually children at these affairs. I don’t have the patience or the ability to be polite enough (and I have so much more politeness than seems to be the norm – especially these days) to tolerate “little precious” and the sugar-high s/he will be on the whole evening until the tryptophan kicks in. And usually, with children, this never happens soon enough.
5) Someone inevitably thinks I’m actually going to help ~ or even offer to help ~ in the kitchen or clear the table or something…
6) I gave up illegal drugs before leaving My teens and there isn’t a drug in the world that can make Me able to deal with “family drama” ~ especially someone else’s family drama!
7) I am blessed to have been born into a family of a very diverse group of cultures. My tribe considers Thanksgiving a day of mourning. It is the annual reminder that Our ancestors showed kindness to save the lives of starving barbarians who returned the gifts they were given with death to Our people, Our forests, Our buffalo and eagles, with prejudice, lies, destruction, and thievery on every level.
8)Added November 24, 2016:I don’t want to receive tons of text messages from people I don’t know because someone sent out a group text and folks don’t know how to set their phones to reply only to sender instead of to everyone in that group! And there’s always that annoying person who wants to call to find out who you are… Fix this on iPhone and Android.
9) I give thanks every day and don’t need one day to celebrate all the blessings that I have.
However, bah-humbug this may sound, I look forward to My day of football and pasta on that third Thursday of November!
Yet, softy-that-I-can-be, I always consider the person who has nothing to do for the “holiday” (but wishes they did) and sometimes, I invite people to come out and have a drink with Me to share some of that “togetherness” that is so highly commercialized to sell you things to buy for Christmas presents. Fortunately, We “ain’t buying it” and We give thanks for having the time to get together for a little fun in Our hectic schedules!
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UPDATE: November 20, 2016
A selfish person attempted to make Me wrong for not celebrating Thanksgiving and insisted that she would call Me on that Thursday to wish Me a Happy Thanksgiving. I told her that the part of Me that is of Native American decent is insulted because saying that to Me is like saying, “Happy Holocaust Day” to a Jew.
As expected, she insisted that it wasn’t the same thing; ranted in a way that deemed her version of history held more value than anyone else’s truth; insisted that I was being too sensitive (that old trick that good-ol’-racists use when People of Color speak up); behaved as if she had the right to decide for Me how I should feel; and chose to be insulted (the other old trick that good-ol’-racists (even those who don’t know/believe they’re racists) use when People of Color speak up).It was her 12-year old son who pointed out to her that no one has the right to tell anyone else what is or isn’t an atrocity to them, and that if she wants her culture to be respected, then We must all respect others’ cultures — whether We understand their feelings or not. Out of the mouths of babes…Isaiah 11:6, New King James Version (scripture edit 11/20/18)
Remember that.
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November 14, 2012
I was given an assignment in the 7th grade to find a poem to memorize and recite. My wonderful Mother and I enjoyed reading through many poems in Our library at home and She found this one. What We didn’t know at the time is that the assignment was for a NYCity-wide poetry competition. I came in 2nd place with this entry – probably because the 1st place winner prefaced her recitation, “One Tin Soldier,” with mention that her brother was a Vietnam veteran, and the vast majority of the judges and entrants felt much less guilt about a poem about the horrors of a more recent war. She was a classmate and We celebrated together while wondering why We won with poems about inhumanity and sorrow when other entries were poems about love, achievement, and greatness… Even in the 7th grade, We were aware of how guilt motivates acknowledgement, recognition, and achievement. Evidently, guilt is not a great enough motivator for positive change in how people treat each other.
Indian
by Rosemary and Stephen Vincent Benet
Michael Gray Eyes
I don’t know who this Indian is,
A bow within his hand,
But he is hiding by a tree
And watching white men land,
They may be gods – – they may be fiends – –
They certainly look rum.
He wonders who on earth they are
And why on earth they’ve come.
He knows his streams are full of fish,
His forests full of deer,
And his tribe is the mighty tribe
That all the others fear.
— And, when the French or English land,
— The Spanish or the Dutch,
They’ll tell him they’re the mighty tribe
An no one else is much.
They’ll kill his deer and net his fish
And clear away his wood,
And frequently remark to him
They do it for his good.
They he will scalp and he will shoot
And he will burn and slay And break the treaties he has made
– – And, children, so will they.
We won’t go into all of that
For it’s too long a story,
And some is brave and some is sad
And nearly all is gory.
But, just remember this about
Our ancestors so dear:
They didn’t find any empty land,
The Indians were here.
Benet, Rosemary and Stephen Vincent.
A Book of Americans. NY: Holt, 1961.
You Know What To Do: REVIEW!
PREPARE For My New Soirees!
REMINDER: My Events are fundraisers for My Charities
DO THE MINIMAL AMOUNT OF WORK required to be able to attend My Soirees. I take the time and utilize My valuable energies and skills to create EXCELLENCE and I will not permit anything or anyone with less than excellent intentions to attend any of MY Creations.
REALITY CHECK:
I create My Events for what I like and want. I invite worthy people to attend what I create. In other words, it’s not all about you.IF you want your fetishes addressed, you can contact Me to discuss engaging My Event Design skills to create the fun to your specifications.
WORTHY people are well-mannered; have social skills; follow MY Rules for MY Events; and get invited to future fabulousness. Even if you are all of these, it is always good to check out the wonderful resources I generously provide to ensure that there are no misunderstandings:
~> My quick read that benefits both Dominants and submissives alike: How To Present yourself To A Mistress. Remember: the investment you make in your Fetish Education is directly proportionate to the quality of your fetish experience.
~> And I didn’t forget about You, Dominants ~ Female and male: My 10 Domina101 Tips(see video below) will assist You in releasing the frustration that comes from the submissive vs. substandard irritations to clearly recognize the true value of the submission being presented (or more quickly see when it is not…)
I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
Tips and Tools to include in your Play Bag for the safest and most excellent Play!
PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay careful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.
I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
The Contents page of AskMssDidi.comhas summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish!
I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely, check it out!
Ann Margret in a scene from Viva Las Vegas (also starring Elvis Presley) — this makes Me laugh!
I love how each of them is fully in the moment of commitment to their groove!
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Quick News New Events &
Private Members Club… Prep For NEW Soirees (I Mean It!)
Really READ: How To Attend My Events
10 Domina101 Tips VIDEO
No Regrets ~ Ask Mss Didi*
How Was Your Summer?
~ New Soirees & New Situations ~ Seriously, PREPARE for My New Soirees (idiot-free zone)! ~“No Regrets: How To” ~ Ask Mss Didi* ~ClassicFetish Resources ~Stimulations
My Fetish Fabulous Summer!
I am making major changes to My Domain because CHANGE IS NECESSARY, especially now… Speaking of change, VOTE BLUE.
Due to the many, many and increasing in numbers of good, Fetish folks being attacked and shut-down by pathetic manipulators who are allowed to go unpunished and can easily affect YOU, My Rules and Policies for My Events continue to attract the trust of even more and more respectable and responsible people for private adventures.
The reason I changed My party plans and disappeared for the summer is because I was invited to join another, Private Members Fetish Club and let someone else organize events for Me to enjoy! It’s been fabulous having marvelous times in completely safe and confidential environments with new friends and old friends, too!
Doesn’t that sound wonderful? A Private Members Fetish Club where you ARE safe — both physically and personally — and you know that you will associate with the type of Fetishists that you want to be with and whom you can trust? More about that and how you may participate coming soon…
Soirees
Halloween marks the end of My Birthday Celebrations. Once I recover, I will begin plans for some Fabulous Fetish Fun since I will spend more time in NYC until the end of the year.
And on the horizon is a major announcement!
More info in the coming issues of My Newsletters!
PREPARE For My New Soirees!
REMINDER: My Events are fundraisers for My Charities
DO THE MINIMAL AMOUNT OF WORK required to be able to attend My Soirees. I take the time and utilize My valuable energies and skills to create EXCELLENCE and I will not permit anything or anyone with less than excellent intentions to attend any of MY Creations.
REALITY CHECK:
I create My Events for what I like and want. I invite worthy people to attend what I create. In other words, it’s not all about you.IF you want your fetishes addressed, you can contact Me to discuss engaging My Event Design skills to create the fun to your specifications.
WORTHY people are well-mannered; have social skills; follow MY Rules for MY Events; and get invited to future fabulousness. Even if you are all of these, it is always good to check out the wonderful resources I generously provide to ensure that there are no misunderstandings:
~> My quick read that benefits both Dominants and submissives alike: How To Present yourself To A Mistress. Remember: the investment you make in your Fetish Education is directly proportionate to the quality of your fetish experience.
~> And I didn’t forget about You, Dominants ~ Female and male: My 10 Domina101 Tips(see video below) will assist You in releasing the frustration that comes from the submissive vs. substandard irritations to clearly recognize the true value of the submission being presented (or more quickly see when it is not…)
I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
Tips and Tools to include in your Play Bag for the safest and most excellent Play!
PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay careful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.
I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
The Contents page of AskMssDidi.comhas summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish!
I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely, check it out!
By clicking on any links contained herein, you agree to the terms providedhereand that you are of legal age and not offended by the material contained in these locations.
Get Ready News! New Twist on My New Events Prep For NEW Soirees (I Mean It!)
Really READ: How To Attend My Events
Domina101 Workshop Soiree LIVE 10 Domina101 Tips VIDEO
The Vetting of Undesirables
No Regrets ~ Ask Mss Didi*
New Applications Accepted
for Party Service Assistants
Something Different!
~ New Soirees & New Locales ~ Seriously, PREPARE for My New Soirees (idiot-free zone)! ~ Domina101 Workshop Soiree Live & In Person ~ The Vetting of My Domain ~“No Regrets: How To” ~ Ask Mss Didi* ~ClassicFetish Resources ~Stimulations
Well, it’s finally Spring and I’m ready for a multitude of flings!
Check out the slideshow below!
Let’s Get Right To It…
Most people have absolutely NO idea what My life is like. Most folks these days fall into 2 categories: (i) the lust-ers who are busy fantasizing that My every day is full of BDSM and whatever their kink is and (ii) the h8ters who are wishing ill-will from their level of jealousy and mediocrity. Their focus is only on what they want from Me while offering absolutely nothing to Me… not even a little, vision of beauty.
So, I am extremely particular about with whom I want to Soiree — especially when I do all of the work and incur all of the expense to produce fabulous events.
I’ve made it quite clear that I do not want any trump supporters at any of My Events or anywhere near Me. The same way the barbarians feel they have the right to be racists, sexists, every-kind-of-ismists, I exercise My Rights to Maintain MY Domain MY Way — especially since MY Domain is not any kind of pretense of a democracy.
But, as We know, barbarians believe they have the right to invade, intrude, and acquire what is yours (they still call it “manifest destiny”) and take the credit for what you’ve created. Yet, in true, punkazz fashion, they always whine and play victim when their sense of self-righteousness is offended.
So My last issue of My Newsletter was dedicated to Black History Month and as expected:
When they tell Me that I’m “not really Black”
12% of My Mailing List unsubscribed — had I known it was that easy to get rid of barbarians, I would have dedicated a lot more to Blackness a lot sooner!
A few idiots actually emailed Me to say that I shouldn’t be so politicalbecause I might offend people… But they have nothing to say about statues of slavers and confederate flags on state capitol buildings offending the descendants of slaves…
And a few truly-idiotic people, while pretending to care for Me,toldMenot to be so political because I’mnotreallyBlack — yes, they said that. The real horror is that this has happened to Me many, many times and they always “get offended” when I tell them how they’ve just offended Me. I wrote about this phenomenon — CLICK IMAGE to peruse.
One of the main morons I never want to see again contacted Me to say he’s waiting for Me to write good newsletters again… So, I left the last issue of My Newsletter up for 2 months. And just before publishing this issue, I sent him a schedule of Women’s History Month events before I personally removed him from My Mailing List.
So, if you’re new here or if you are offended that I will continue to “be political” for My Rights, My history, and the rights of those who also deserve quality of life, you should . From now on, I will continue to raise the level of education of Black History & Present and Women’s Herstory in My Newletters. The crème de la crème who deserve to be in My Domain will rise to the top in appreciation.
New Event Adventures
REMINDER: My Events are fundraisers for My Charities
I want MORE new, fun subs and Divas to Play with this summer so let’s get things going! My next Event will be an experiment in a new venue situation. I maintain that the best way to try something new is to have a party with it! It’s time for a:
Grand Audience SpeedDomming Soiree, an invitation only event with 1-to-1 interviews, hors d’oeuvres & mellow beverages, conversation, and perhaps, a bit of Play in a lovely, comfortable, private environment. The intimidation factor is alleviated by beauty, comfort, and amity; and a
Domina101 Workshop Soiree with a how-to segment (see video below) and socializing! It’s challenging to be a Woman and being a Domme can get quite lonesome with a lack of contemporaries wherever You frolick. This Event is designed to gain a bit of perspective on Domain Maintenance and to meet other Dominas to develop supportive and fun associations — especially to Play with at Domina Play Dates!
Both Events will be held in Midtown NYC near all transportation because there should be minimal effort to one’s fun.
READ How To Prepare For My Soirees belowbecause if you don’t and you aggravate Me with stupidity when I’ve taken the time to clearly write and make information easily available, you’ll have only yourself to blame.
Before We get started, I’m giving YOU the chance to CHOOSE THE DATES THAT WORK FOR YOU to Soiree! HURRY! Party season is upon Us with graduations and weddings coming up… Isn’t it lovely to have choices? Isn’t it lovelier to have someone care about you in your Fetish Fun?
DO THE MINIMAL AMOUNT OF WORK required to be able to attend My Soirees. I take the time and utilize My valuable energies and skills to create EXCELLENCE and I will not permit anything or anyone with less than excellent intentions to attend any of MY Creations.
REALITY CHECK:
I create My Events for what I like and want. I invite worthy people to attend what I create. In other words, it’s not all about you.IF you want your fetishes addressed, you can contact Me to discuss engaging My Event Design skills to create the fun to your specifications.
WORTHY people are well-mannered; have social skills; follow MY Rules for MY Events; and get invited to future fabulousness. Even if you are all of these, it is always good to check out the wonderful resources I generously provide to ensure that there are no misunderstandings:
~> My quick read that benefits both Dominants and submissives alike: How To Present yourself To A Mistress. Remember: the investment you make in your Fetish Education is directly proportionate to the quality of your fetish experience.
~> And I didn’t forget about You, Dominants ~ Female and male: My 10 Domina101 Tips(see video below) will assist You in releasing the frustration that comes from the submissive vs. substandard irritations to clearly recognize the true value of the submission being presented (or more quickly see when it is not…)
I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
10 Domina101 Tips Video
I receive numerous requests for answers that I’ve already written and most of those answers are presented inMy 10 Domina101 Tips offering. So, [snark alert!] since too many folks operate with the attention span of gnats and reading more than 140 characters seems to be an issue, here’s a little video that outlines the basics. IF you want more detailed info, READ.
Opportunities for NEW submissives & FUN Assistants
I regularly offer opportunities for cool people to experience the glories of My Domain and Events by offering their services to assist Me and My Guests. I am interested in “keepers” — people who will become part of the Fetish Family and be worthy of being adored — and this is the perfect chance to test the waters! These opportunities are NOT limited to submissives. Dominants, switches, “whatevers” are encouraged to apply as long as you can respectfully pay attention and follow instructions. And if I really like you, I may invite you to spend some time with Me in the sun-sea-sand!
I cannot stress enough how important it is to approach Me properly. This is one of the primary reasons I offer My Complimentary Fetish Etiquette Guide: How To Present yourself To A Mistressfor free. READ IT before you ruin an opportunity to find what you’re craving in your fetish life. Not only are first impressions lasting, they’ll cost you if you’re missing simple, subtle nuances.
I am continuing My interviews for hardcore masochists for private and public performances, Mentee training sessions, and Play — of course! Play, Play, Play! This opportunity may include all-expense paid travel.
Please note:I have planned Personal Play Soirees for new associates to join Me and My Fetish Friends. I will not announce these Events to the public, but new folks who vibe with Me will definitely be invited for decadent delights Mss. Didi* style!
Webcam Workshops
Coming Soon!
REMINDER: My Webcam Workshops and My Events are fundraisers for My Charities.x
Why Take These Webcam Workshops?
Well, you don’t have to — you can always read everything I’ve graciously provided for free on AskMssDidi.com. Although a lot of what I present in My Workshops is not written there, you can always spend even more time figuring out what else you need to know and keep your fingers crossed to search the internet to find intelligent information. If you take My Webcam Workshops, you can spend 90 minutes enjoying the condensed version of what I’ve written and more AND ask Me questions directly in real-time. Of course, you can always continue being as happy, successful, and satisfied with your Fetish situations, doing what you’re already doing… Isn’t it wonderful to have the choice? More Info…
Be certain you’re onMy Mailing List for other Workshop dates and other announcements.
Tips and Tools to include in your Play Bag for the safest and most excellent Play!
PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay careful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.
I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
The Contents page of AskMssDidi.comhas summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish!
I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely, check it out!
By clicking on any links contained herein, you agree to the terms providedhereand that you are of legal age and not offended by the material contained in these locations.
Education News! Black History Month:
What Do/Don’t You Know? Choose The Next Soirees! My ClassicFetish Theater
Experience ON TOUR! 10 Domina101 Tips VIDEO How To Attend My Events Applications Accepted for Party Service Assistants
Education Is Key
~ Know YOUR History ~ Poll Results! ~ Choose The Next Soirees ~ 10 Domina101 Tips VIDEO ~ClassicFetish Resources ~Stimulations
Black History ISYOUR History
This newsletter is published a little late because I had to take some time to clear My head, collect My thoughts and be certain that I express Myself with the eloquence and integrity that makes Me proud to be Me. The growing wave of racism, sexism, creepism requires those of Us who are conscious and conscientious to be very mindful of Who We Are and How We Want To Be.
So that it’s totally clear that American (and amerikkkan) history and present is BUILT upon the achievements and sacrifices of Black America despite the heinousness of slavery, Jim Crow, and trumpasses, this issue of My Newsletter is devoted to Black History month with facts to broaden your consciousness and clarity.
The more you know about YOUR history, the better you are in your present and future. AND maybe more people won’t say something racist and offensive from a place of total ignorance because YOU will have knowledge to share and be proud of, too. Each one teach one.
See Stimulations below.
If anyone thinks that’s too ethnic, …
Poll Results
The results are in! I am delighted to have so many knowledgeable readers! The correct answer is sounds — do you now what they are and how to use them? Check out My Play Nice With Your Toys Workshop and if there’s enough interest, I will create a special event.
Choose The Next Soirees
Due to the amount of time it will take to repair hurricane damage to My Fabulous Fetish Fun Zones, I am spending more time in NYC. So, that I don’t get bored, I have to create events to enjoy being a Fabulous Fetishist — which benefits you!
I GIVE YOU what you need to step up to BetterFetish and prepare to take part in superior experiences to the “pimp-n-ho parties.” All you need to do is be real and walk yourtalk. READBELOW and really follow the links.
Take the Soiree Survey
Isn’t it lovely to have choices? Isn’t it lovelier to have someone care about you in your Fetish Fun?
Let Me know what type of Soirees you’re interested in attending and — here’s the best part — when you’re available so that I can make the magic happen!
It is imperative that you DO THE MINIMAL AMOUNT OF WORK required to be able to attend My Soirees. I take the time and utilize My valuable energies and skills to create EXCELLENCE and I will not permit anything or anyone with less than excellent intentions to attend any of MY Creations.
~> My quick read that benefits both Dominants and submissives alike: How To Present yourself To A Mistress. Remember: the investment you make in your Fetish Education is directly proportionate to the quality of your fetish experience.
If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
More resources below.
Domina Delights!
As always, I will make announcements to My Mailing List before announcing elsewhere — IF I announce info anywhere else at all.
And maybe, A Full Dress Fetish Soiree(see pics) like the good ol’ days when people cared to contribute to The Scene instead of just wanting to take from it…
My Experiential Theater Project ON TOUR!
OF COURSE, I keep all details confidential. But I will say that the Fab Fetishists who participated in My ClassicFetish Experiential Theater Project in the sun-sea-sand had a blast! I’m looking forward to more travels coming soon. So, don’t miss your opportunity to get on board and cruise (or fly) to the sun-sea-sand for a weekend as part of the festivities! DETAILS AND APPLY HERE.
to determine what type of participation will be the most fun for you! Have FUN with this 2-minute quiz to find your best role in My ClassicFetish Experiential Theater Events!
10 Domina101 Tips Video
I receive numerous requests for answers that I’ve already written and most of those answers are presented inMy 10 Domina101 Tips offering. So, [snark alert!] since too many folks operate with the attention span of gnats and reading more than 140 characters seems to be an issue, here’s a little video that outlines the basics. IF you want more detailed info, READ.
Opportunities for NEW submissives & FUN Assistants
NOTE:I am NOW interviewing staff, assistants, and performers for My New and Travel Ventures — CLICK HERE to apply! Performers, please prepare a short video (or detailed photo montage) of your performance to show Me. Staff, please prepare check-able references.
I regularly offer opportunities for cool people to experience the glories of My Domain and Events by offering their services to assist Me and My Guests. I am interested in “keepers” — people who will become part of the Fetish Family and be worthy of being adored — and this is the perfect chance to test the waters! These opportunities are NOT limited to submissives. Dominants, switches, “whatevers” are encouraged to apply as long as you can respectfully pay attention and follow instructions. And if I really like you, I may invite you to spend some time with Me in the sun-sea-sand!
REMINDER: My Webcam Workshops and My Events are fundraisers for My Charities.x
Why Take These Webcam Workshops?
Well, you don’t have to — you can always read everything I’ve graciously provided for free on AskMssDidi.com. Although a lot of what I present in My Workshops is not written there, you can always spend even more time figuring out what else you need to know and keep your fingers crossed to search the internet to find intelligent information. If you take My Webcam Workshops, you can spend 90 minutes enjoying the condensed version of what I’ve written and more AND ask Me questions directly in real-time. Of course, you can always continue being as happy, successful, and satisfied with your Fetish situations, doing what you’re already doing… Isn’t it wonderful to have the choice? More Info on How YOU Benefit…
Be certain you’re onMy Mailing List for other Workshop dates and other announcements.
Tips and Tools to include in your Play Bag for the safest and most excellent Play!
PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay careful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.
I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
The Contents page of AskMssDidi.comhas summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish!
I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely, check it out!
Idris Elba – Black History didn’t start withh slavery
Teacher Strategies: With over 10,000 pages of information BlackPast.org is the single largest free and unrestricted resource on African American and African history on the Internet today. The articles and outlines below are suggestions and guides provided by teachers to help other instructors effectively utilize this vast resource. Click on to any of the major headings, Lessons, Teachers Thinking About Topics, or Fun Stuff, or their subheadings to be taken to pages that describe in detail the outlines and suggestions.
While Black Women were denied participation in Miss America Pageants, the Miss Black America organization was sued for racial discrimination… Miss Black America Pageant Song by Curtis Mayfield
Whoopi Goldberg
Julia was an American sitcom notable for being one of the first weekly series to depict an African American woman in a non-stereotypical role. Previous television series featured African American lead characters, but the characters were usually servants. The show starred actress and singer Diahann Carroll, and ran for 86 episodes on NBC from September 17, 1968 to March 23, 1971. Also important to note is that inter-racial best-friendship of Julia’s son and her neighbors’.
A FEW Inventions by Black Americans
The 1968 Olympics Black Power Salute: African American athletes Tommie Smith and John Carlos raise their fists in a gesture of solidarity at the 1968 Olympic games. Australian Silver medalist Peter Norman wore an Olympic Project for Human Rights badge in support of their protest and returned home to Australia a pariah, suffering unofficial sanction and ridicule as the Black Power salute’s forgotten man. He never ran in the Olympics again. Both Americans were expelled from the Olympic games FOR LIFE as a result. CLICK THE IMAGE FOR ARTICLE.
Yasuke, the only Black Samurai ever recorded in written history
“They’ve always said that I’m anti-white. I’m for anybody who’s for freedom. I’m for anybody who’s for justice. I’m for anybody who’s for equality. I’m not for anybody who tells me to sit around and wait for mine.” – Malcolm X
William Lewis Moore, a white postal worker from Maryland who walked to Mississippi to deliver a letter against segregation. Murdered 5 days before his birthday in 1963.
32 of the 400 Freedom Riders. From May until November 1961, more than 400 black and white Americans risked their lives—and many endured savage beatings and imprisonment—for simply traveling together on buses and trains as they journeyed through the Deep South. Deliberately violating Jim Crow laws in order to test and challenge a segregated interstate travel system, the Freedom Riders met with bitter racism and mob violence along the way, sorely testing their belief in nonviolent activism. An excellent movie features testimony from a fascinating cast of central characters: the Riders themselves, state and federal government officials, and journalists who witnessed the Rides firsthand. The two-hour documentary is based on Raymond Arsenault’s book Freedom Riders: 1961 and the Struggle for Racial Justice. Watch the Freedom Riders movie here.
Writer, activist and educator Dr. Angela Davis is best known as a radical African-American educator and activist for civil rights and other social issues. She knew about racial prejudice from her experiences with discrimination growing up in Alabama. Read more…
Bobby Seale is an African-American political activist and co-founder and national chairman of the Black Panther Party. While working at a War on Poverty program, he and co-founder, Huey P. Newton, wrote a ten-point program that outlined the outlook and goals of the BPP. The Ten-Point program demanded that blacks have the “power to determine the destiny of our Black Community.” Control of their own community would allow blacks to gain “land, bread, housing, education, clothing, justice and peace.”
By clicking on any links contained herein, you agree to the terms providedhereand that you are of legal age and not offended by the material contained in these locations.
Quick News! New Year’s Fitness: Hail or Fail? My ClassicFetish Theater
Experience ON TOUR! Prep For NEW Soirees! 10 Domina101 Tips VIDEO How To Attend My Events Applications Accepted for Party Service Assistants
Already Rockin’ 2018!
~My ClassicFetish Experiential Theater Tour Date #1! & More Staff, Participant & Performer Interviews & FUN Quiz ~ Seriously, PREPARE for My New Soirees (idiot-free zone)! ~ Keep Those Resolutions With My Fitness Tips ~ 10 Domina101 Tips VIDEO ~ClassicFetish Resources ~Stimulations
Did you notice…?
In My photo for the last issue of My Newsletter, I played a game with My fellow Members of EpicuresNYC and those who are in “Our Circle.” Let’s see how sharp you are — what am I holding? And do you know how to use it? I feel a Play Nice With Your Toys Workshop coming on…
Let’s have some more fun with this ~ take the poll:
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How’s Your New Year’s Resolution To Get Fit Going…?
Right about now, most people realize that they set themselves up to fail with ridiculous and torturous (not in a fun way) goals to get fit and healthy. Goddess that I am, once again I share with you intelligent fitness options so that you, too, can walk your talk!
My Experiential Theater Project ON TOUR!
As I mentioned in My previous Newsletter, My ClassicFetish Experiential Theater Project has been so much fun that I’ve received requests to take it on the road! A few, Fab Fetishists who applied and participated in My ClassicFetish Experiential Theater Projectwill accompany Me to indulge in the sun-sea-sand for a Performance Weekend towards the end of the month!
In anticipation of more traveling, ClassicFetish Fun, I am holding new interviews for respectful Fetish Players, performers with Fetish Skills, and voyeurs who demonstrate safety in activities! If you missed it before, NOW IS YOUR CHANCE to get on board and cruise (or fly) to the sun-sea-sand for a weekend as part of the festivities! DETAILS AND APPLY HERE.
to determine what type of participation will be the most fun for you! Have FUN with this 2-minute quiz to find your best role in My ClassicFetish Experiential Theater Events!
PREPARE For My New Soirees!
It is imperative that you DO THE MINIMAL AMOUNT OF WORK required to be able to attend My Soirees. I take the time and utilize My valuable energies and skills to create EXCELLENCE and I will not permit anything or anyone with less than excellent intentions to attend any of MY Creations.
REALITY CHECK:
I create My Events for what I like and want. I invite worthy people to attend what I create. In other words, it’s not all about you.IF you want your fetishes addressed, you can contact Me to discuss to create the fun to your specifications.
WORTHY people are well-mannered; have social skills; follow MY Rules for MY Events; and get invited to future fabulousness. Even if you are all of these, it is always good to check out the wonderful resources I generously provide to ensure that there are no misunderstandings:
~> My quick read that benefits both Dominants and submissives alike: How To Present yourself To A Mistress. Remember: the investment you make in your Fetish Education is directly proportionate to the quality of your fetish experience.
~> And I didn’t forget about You, Dominants ~ Female and male: My 10 Domina101 Tips(see video below) will assist You in releasing the frustration that comes from the submissive vs. substandard irritations to clearly recognize the true value of the submission being presented (or more quickly see when it is not…)
I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
Domina Delights!
Since I am traveling with My ClassicFetish Experiential Theater Project at the end of the month,the Divas & Our Admirers Meet & Greet will be rescheduled to a tentative date of February 7th. I will make announcements to My Mailing List before announcing elsewhere — if I announce info anywhere else at all.
As I’ve said, I’m bored with hearing the same-ol’ conversation about how folks can’t seem to find good subs or Dominants and I challenge you to put your money where your mouth is. I am going to GIVE YOU what you need to prepare to take part in different experiences from the “pimp-parties” and step up to BetterFetish. All you need to do is be real and walk yourtalk. See Resources above and below.
And maybe, A Full Dress Fetish Soiree(see pics) like the good ol’ days when people cared to contribute to The Scene instead of just wanting to take from it…
10 Domina101 Tips Video
I receive numerous requests for answers that I’ve already written and most of those answers are presented inMy 10 Domina101 Tips offering. So, [snark alert!] since too many folks operate with the attention span of gnats and reading more than 140 characters seems to be an issue, here’s a little video that outlines the basics. IF you want more detailed info, READ.
Opportunities for NEW submissives & FUN Assistants
NOTE:I am NOW interviewing staff, assistants, and performers for My New and Travel Ventures — CLICK HERE to apply! Performers, please prepare a short video (or detailed photo montage) of your performance to show Me. Staff, please prepare check-able references. All others, see below.
I regularly offer opportunities for cool people to experience the glories of My Domain and Events by offering their services to assist Me and My Guests. I am interested in “keepers” — people who will become part of the Fetish Family and be worthy of being adored — and this is the perfect chance to test the waters! These opportunities are NOT limited to submissives. Dominants, switches, “whatevers” are encouraged to apply as long as you can respectfully pay attention and follow instructions. And if I really like you, I may invite you to spend some time with Me in the sun-sea-sand!
I cannot stress enough how important it is to approach Me properly. This is one of the primary reasons I offer My Complimentary Fetish Etiquette Guide: How To Present yourself To A Mistressfor free. READ IT before you ruin an opportunity to find what you’re craving in your fetish life. Not only are first impressions lasting, they’ll cost you if you’re missing simple, subtle nuances.
I am continuing My interviews for hardcore masochists for private and public performances, Mentee training sessions, and Play — of course! Play, Play, Play! This opportunity may include all-expense paid travel.
Please note:I have planned Personal Play Soirees for new associates to join Me and My Fetish Friends. I will not announce these Events to the public, but new folks who vibe with Me will definitely be invited for decadent delights Mss. Didi* style!
Webcam Workshops
Coming in 2018!
REMINDER: My Webcam Workshops and My Events are fundraisers for My Charities.x
Why Take These Webcam Workshops?
Well, you don’t have to — you can always read everything I’ve graciously provided for free on AskMssDidi.com. Although a lot of what I present in My Workshops is not written there, you can always spend even more time figuring out what else you need to know and keep your fingers crossed to search the internet to find intelligent information. If you take My Webcam Workshops, you can spend 90 minutes enjoying the condensed version of what I’ve written and more AND ask Me questions directly in real-time. Of course, you can always continue being as happy, successful, and satisfied with your Fetish situations, doing what you’re already doing… Isn’t it wonderful to have the choice? More Info…
Be certain you’re onMy Mailing List for other Workshop dates and other announcements.
Tips and Tools to include in your Play Bag for the safest and most excellent Play!
PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay careful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.
I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
The Contents page of AskMssDidi.comhas summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish!
I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely, check it out!
By clicking on any links contained herein, you agree to the terms providedhereand that you are of legal age and not offended by the material contained in these locations.
Domina Delights Events! Thank You, Donors To My Birthday Charity Fundraiser! My ClassicFetish Theater
Experience TOUR! REVISIT Holiday Stress Management Tools 10 Domina101 Tips VIDEO How To Attend My Events Applications Accepted
for Party Service Assistants
Welcome 2018!
Wishing you a Happy, Healthy and Consciousness Aware New Year!
~ New Year, New Soirees! ~Thanks & Still Donate to My Birthday Charity Fundraiser
~TOURING Plans ~ My Experiential Theater & More Staff, Participant & Performer Interviews & FUN Quiz ~ READ (AGAIN): Tools To Manage Psycho-Induced Stress & “Fear-Mongering” ~ 10 Domina101 Tips VIDEO ~ClassicFetish Resources ~Stimulations
The hectic season is upon Us…
With an obviously, drunk-ass president being promoted in the media as having “health concerns” and the usual, false accusations of brown-skinned and/or Muslim people as in the Grand Central Station situation (see security video), I STRONGLY encourage you to read and re-read Tools To Manage Psycho-Induced Stress & “Fear-Mongering” below. You will be grateful that you did — and so will those who share your environment!
A Special Thank You
Many Blessings upon the donors for . And a very special thank you to the anonymous donor (public fundraising page)! Please feel free to contact Me so that I may thank you properly!
There is still time for YOU to and help build clean water wells for some of the MILLIONS of people who do not have access to clean water — no amount is too small! Please . Every amount counts and makes a difference.
New Year, New Soirees!
Domina Delights!
Well, those hurricanes are the reason that I will be in NYC a lot more often than I wanted to be this winter. So, since I must endure the chill, as always I make the best of things and I am planning ClassicFetish Thrills for 2018! GET EXCITED!
I’m bored with hearing the same-ol’ conversation about how folks can’t seem to find good subs or Dominants and I challenge you to put your money where your mouth is. I am going to GIVE YOU what you need to prepare to take part in different experiences from the “pimp-parties” and step up to BetterFetish. All you need to do is be real and walk yourtalk.
If you’re gong to make New Year’s Resolutions, resolve to BE BETTER and have BetterFetish!
And maybe, A Full Dress Fetish Soiree(see pics) like the good ol’ days when people cared to contribute to The Scene instead of just wanting to be served by it…
Stay tuned…
UPDATE:My Experiential Theater Project Preparing For Tour
My ClassicFetish Experiential Theater Project has been so much fun that I’ve received requests to take it on the road! While I’m doing hurricane clean-up, I intend to continue interviews for respectful Fetish Players, performers with Fetish Skills, and voyeurs who demonstrate safety in activities! So, NOW IS YOUR CHANCE to get on board and cruise (or fly) to the sun-sea-sand for a weekend as part of the festivities!
Those chosen for travel MUST have a valid passport. Expenseswill be paid (excluding departure fees and your travel to/from Our transports) and all arrangements will be finalized in writing with participants prior to departures.
You MUST meet with Me in person before being considered for participation — My treat. Details sent to applicants.
AS ALWAYS, follow the carefully-written instructions I have taken the time to write to make sure that We proceed correctly from the very beginning.
Only cool & respectful, Fab Fetish Folks, I really mean it — you have to know how to receive and appreciate a GIFT.There are NO other events with the level of upscale excellence that I’m sharing — are you worthy of this Gift?
And speaking of knowing how to receive a gift, I strongly recommend that you indulge in the quick read that benefits both Dominants and submissives alike:
to determine what type of participation will be the most fun for you! Have FUN with this 2-minute quiz to find your best role in My ClassicFetish Experiential Theater Events!
This Project is a public experience in an extremely private and exclusive environment(s).
AGAIN, YOU MUST FOLLOW ALL OF MY INSTRUCTIONS if you wish to participate in MYGIFTTOYOU IN MY DOMAIN.
Be advised that under NO circumstances will your application be considered without photos. Read My Photo Guarantee.
I continue to interview new folks for regular and “visiting” positions in My Domain.See below.
10 Domina101 Tips Video
I receive numerous requests for answers that I’ve already written and most of those answers are presented inMy 10 Domina101 Tips offering. So, [snark alert!] since too many folks operate with the attention span of gnats and reading more than 140 characters seems to be an issue, here’s a little video that outlines the basics. IF you want more detailed info, READ.
Tools To Manage Psycho-Induced Stress & “Fear-Mongering”
While I really do My best to refrain from political commentary, the antics of the thieving-barbarian-in-chief are enhancing the stress factor all around. You cannot help but notice the intense rise in insidious killings of Americans by Americans on American soil being repeated and repeated and repeated in the ghoul-feeding-frenzy-media (and NOT the Halloween-fun kind).
We are under attack by a non-stop, barrage of negativity on Our senses and sensibilities. So, before anyone else pops a gasket, and so that We can exercise SELF-CONTROL and BE examples of the BEST rather than the worst of Americans, here are FREE Tools to strengthen your clarity and calm.
Chill Out Training Technique: The Tapping Solution I swear by this technique for Myself and it totally works for Me and everyone who chooses to work it. It is a physiological-neurolinguistic technique that you can learn in less than 4 minutes (see video) to instantly gain and maintain control of your emotional states. Try it for yourself! You’ll be amazed!
Subscribe To Daily GOOD NEWS Reports. I highly recommend:
Happify is the single destination for effective, evidence-based solutions for better emotional health and wellbeing in the 21st century. Happify brings you effective tools and programs to help you take control of your feelings and thoughts with proven techniques developed by leading scientists and experts who’ve been studying evidence-based interventions in the fields of positive psychology, mindfulness, and cognitive behavioral therapy for decades.
Daily Good. The world is full of everyday heroes and true stories of transformation. DailyGood aims to shine a light on these stories and in doing so to change the nature of our conversations. If it can spread a few smiles along the way it’s purpose is served. Readers receive a news story, an inspiring quote, and a suggested action that each person can take to make a difference in their own lives and the world around them. I look forward to receiving these emails!
2 of My favorite sources for good news reports are the Good News Network which has been inspiring people to be more optimistic with positive news from all over the world for more than 20 years, and Sunny Skyz which has only positive, uplifting and inspiring news stories from around the world.
Believe it or not, several, major news organizations actually have a “good news” section. Some offerings come from The Huffington Post, MSN, Today, and Fox News… but there’s a really good probability that it’s fake news!
Opportunities for NEW submissives & FUN Assistants
NOTE:I am NOW interviewing staff, assistants, and performers for My New Venture — CLICK HERE to apply! Performers, please prepare a short video (or detailed photo montage) of your performance to show Me. Staff, please prepare check-able references. All others, see below.
I regularly offer opportunities for cool people to experience the glories of My Domain and Events by offering their services to assist Me and My Guests. I am interested in “keepers” — people who will become part of the Fetish Family and be worthy of being adored — and this is the perfect chance to test the waters! These opportunities are NOT limited to submissives. Dominants, switches, “whatevers” are encouraged to apply as long as you can respectfully pay attention and follow instructions. And if I really like you, I may invite you to spend some time with Me in the sun-sea-sand!
I cannot stress enough how important it is to approach Me properly. This is one of the primary reasons I offer My Complimentary Fetish Etiquette Guide: How To Present yourself To A Mistressfor free. READ IT before you ruin an opportunity to find what you’re craving in your fetish life. Not only are first impressions lasting, they’ll cost you if you’re missing simple, subtle nuances.
I am continuing My interviews for hardcore masochists for private and public performances, Mentee training sessions, and Play — of course! Play, Play, Play! This opportunity may include all-expense paid travel.
Please note:I have planned Personal Play Soirees for new associates to join Me and My Fetish Friends. I will not announce these Events to the public, but new folks who vibe with Me will definitely be invited for decadent delights Mss. Didi* style!
Webcam Workshops
Coming in 2018!
REMINDER: My Webcam Workshops and My Events are fundraisers for My Charities.x
Why Take These Webcam Workshops?
Well, you don’t have to — you can always read everything I’ve graciously provided for free on AskMssDidi.com. Although a lot of what I present in My Workshops is not written there, you can always spend even more time figuring out what else you need to know and keep your fingers crossed to search the internet to find intelligent information. If you take My Webcam Workshops, you can spend 90 minutes enjoying the condensed version of what I’ve written and more AND ask Me questions directly in real-time. Of course, you can always continue being as happy, successful, and satisfied with your Fetish situations, doing what you’re already doing… Isn’t it wonderful to have the choice? More Info…
Be certain you’re onMy Mailing List for other Workshop dates and other announcements.
Tips and Tools to include in your Play Bag for the safest and most excellent Play!
PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay careful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.
I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
The Contents page of AskMssDidi.comhas summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish!
I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely, check it out!
By clicking on any links contained herein, you agree to the terms providedhereand that you are of legal age and not offended by the material contained in these locations.
QUICKIE NEWS:
I’ve been crazy-busy with hurricane-clean-up… So My Time and Energies are even more precious than usual. And since this is NOT My favorite time of year, here’s the deal:
Pick The Date for a December Soiree Thank You, Donors To
My Birthday Charity Fundraiser! My ClassicFetish Theater Experience TOUR! Why I Don’t Do Thanksgiving Holiday Stress Management Tools 10 Domina101 Tips VIDEO How To Attend My Events Applications Accepted
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Prepare for Fun!
~ Pick The Date for a December Soiree! ~Thanks & Still Donate to My Birthday Charity Fundraiser
~TOURING Plans ~ My Experiential Theater & More Staff, Participant & Performer Interviews & FUN Quiz ~ Why I Don’t Do Thanksgiving ~ READ (AGAIN): Tools To Manage Psycho-Induced Stress & “Fear-Mongering” ~ 10 Domina101 Tips VIDEO ~ClassicFetish Resources ~Stimulations
Many Blessings upon the donors for . And a very special thank you to the anonymous donor (public fundraising page)! Please feel free to contact Me so that I may thank you properly!
YOU can still and help build clean water wells for some of the MILLIONS of people who do not have access to clean water — no amount is too small! Please . Every amount counts and makes a difference.
Pick The Date for a December Soiree
It’s simple: TAKE THIS LITTLE 60-second SURVEY and let Me know which date(s) you can commit to. The majority wins and I will announce the date and details to My Mailing List first (as always) .
UPDATE:My Experiential Theater Project Preparing For Tour
My ClassicFetish Experiential Theater Project has been so much fun that I’ve received requests to take it on the road! While I’m doing hurricane clean-up, I intend to continue interviews for respectful Fetish Players, performers with Fetish Skills, and voyeurs who demonstrate safety in activities! So, NOW IS YOUR CHANCE to get on board and cruise (or fly) to the sun-sea-sand for a weekend as part of the festivities!
Those chosen for travel MUST have a valid passport. Expenseswill be paid (excluding departure fees and your travel to/from Our transports) and all arrangements will be finalized in writing with participants prior to departures.
You MUST meet with Me in person before being considered for participation — My treat. Details sent to applicants.
AS ALWAYS, follow the carefully-written instructions I have taken the time to write to make sure that We proceed correctly from the very beginning.
Only cool & respectful, Fab Fetish Folks, I really mean it — you have to know how to receive and appreciate a GIFT.There are NO other events with the level of upscale excellence that I’m sharing — are you worthy of this Gift?
And speaking of knowing how to receive a gift, I strongly recommend that you indulge in the quick read that benefits both Dominants and submissives alike:
to determine what type of participation will be the most fun for you! Have FUN with this 2-minute quiz to find your best role in My ClassicFetish Experiential Theater Events!
This Project is a public experience in an extremely private and exclusive environment(s).
AGAIN, YOU MUST FOLLOW ALL OF MY INSTRUCTIONS if you wish to participate in MYGIFTTOYOU IN MY DOMAIN.
Be advised that under NO circumstances will your application be considered without photos. Read My Photo Guarantee.
I continue to interview new folks for regular and “visiting” positions in My Domain.See below.
Why I Don’t “Do” Thanksgiving
It’s time for the yearly reminder.
UPDATE: November 20, 2016
A selfish person attempted to make Me wrong for not celebrating Thanksgiving and insisted that she would call Me on that Thursday to wish Me a Happy Thanksgiving. I told her that the part of Me that is of Native American decent is insulted because saying that to Me is like saying, “Happy Holocaust Day” to a Jew.
As expected, she insisted that it wasn’t the same thing; ranted in a way that deemed her version of history held more value than anyone else’s truth; insisted that I was being too sensitive (that old trick that good-ol’-racists use when People of Color speak up); behaved as if she had the right to decide for Me how I should feel; and chose to be insulted (the other old trick that good-ol’-racists (even those who don’t know/believe they’re racists) use when People of Color speak up).It was her 12-year old son who pointed out to her that no one has the right to tell anyone else what is or isn’t an atrocity to them, and that if she wants her culture to be respected, then We must all respect others’ cultures — whether We understand their feelings or not. Out of the mouths of babes…Psalm 8:2 New King James Version
Remember that.
Originally written November 25, 2009
First, My many thanks to all of the wonderful people who invited Me to their Thanksgiving feasts! It was so thoughtful and gracious of them and I consider it quite an honor to be asked to share their dinners with them. Really, I am truly aware of how blessed I am to be cared for by so many. (To those who invited Me and read this, I expect you to be laughing at most of it as you do! Be certain to invite Me to other gatherings, though!)
So, as I politely declined, I waited a day or two and then told My real reasons for not doing Thanksgiving:
1) I am predominantly vegetarian and I have not eaten turkey for more than 20 years. Since any type of meat or poultry in food will make Me ill, I always say that I’m a bummer at Thanksgiving dinners, but the truth is that I’m bummed at the boring salad that awaits Me, or worse, at the cook who thinks a “little bit of” whatever won’t “hurt” Me until I’m vomiting… and attempting to make it look like an accident while I aim it at the favorite rug or couch…
2) I don’t like making people feel uncomfortable in their domains because I am not participating in the gluttony-fest. Aside from the fact that people always feel sorry for Me that I don’t eat “meat” while I feel sorry for them that they do, I have to endure the, “that’s how you stay in that shape” conversations. This inevitably comes from the fattest person at the gathering, speaking with that second piece of pie in hand.
3) Since I usually have to eat before I go to Thanksgiving dinner to ensure that I don’t get hungry, what’s the sense in going out if I’ve already cooked and can stay home and watch the football game? And if I watch the game at someone’s home, I’m usually the only woman with all the males and the females get their feathers ruffled more than usual when I’m in a room. Little do they know ~ or maybe they do know ~ that the only thing I would want their men to do is grovel at My feet with tributes.
4) There are usually children at these affairs. I don’t have the patience or the ability to be polite enough (and I have so much more politeness than seems to be the norm – especially these days) to tolerate “little precious” and the sugar-high s/he will be on the whole evening until the tryptophan kicks in. And usually, with children, this never happens soon enough.
5) Someone inevitably thinks I’m actually going to help ~ or even offer to help ~ in the kitchen or clear the table or something…
6) I gave up illegal drugs before leaving My teens and there isn’t a drug in the world that can make Me able to deal with “family drama” ~ especially someone else’s family drama!
7) I am blessed to have been born into a family of a very diverse group of cultures. My tribe considers Thanksgiving a day of mourning. It is the annual reminder that Our ancestors showed kindness to save the lives of starving barbarians who returned the gifts they were given with death to Our people, Our forests, Our buffalo and eagles, with prejudice, lies, destruction, and thievery on every level.
8)Added November 24, 2016:I don’t want to receive tons of text messages from people I don’t know because someone sent out a group text and folks don’t know how to set their phones to reply only to sender instead of to everyone in that group! And there’s always that annoying person who wants to call to find out who you are… Fix this on iPhone and Android.
9) I give thanks every day and don’t need one day to celebrate all the blessings that I have.
However, bah-humbug this may sound, I look forward to My day of football and pasta on that third Thursday of November!
Yet, softy-that-I-can-be, I always consider the person who has nothing to do for the “holiday” (but wishes they did) and sometimes, I invite people to come out and have a drink with Me to share some of that “togetherness” that is so highly commercialized to sell you things to buy for Christmas presents. Fortunately, We “ain’t buying it” and We give thanks for having the time to get together for a little fun in Our hectic schedules!
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November 14, 2012
I was given an assignment in the 7th grade to find a poem to memorize and recite. My Mother and I enjoyed reading through many poems in Our library at home and She found this one. What We didn’t know at the time is that the assignment was for a NYCity-wide poetry competition. I came in 2nd place with this entry – probably because the 1st place winner prefaced her recitation, “One Tin Soldier,” with mention that her brother was a Vietnam veteran, and the vast majority of the judges and entrants felt much less guilt about a poem about the horrors of a more recent war. She was a classmate and We celebrated together while wondering why We won with poems about inhumanity and sorrow when other entries were poems about love, achievement, and greatness… Even in the 7th grade, We were aware of how guilt motivates acknowledgement, recognition, and achievement. Evidently, guilt is not a great enough motivator for positive change in how people treat each other.
Indian
by Rosemary and Stephen Vincent Benet
I don’t know who this Indian is,
A bow within his hand,
But he is hiding by a tree
And watching white men land,
They may be gods – – they may be fiends – –
They certainly look rum.
He wonders who on earth they are
And why on earth they’ve come.
He knows his streams are full of fish,
His forests full of deer,
And his tribe is the mighty tribe
That all the others fear.
— And, when the French or English land,
— The Spanish or the Dutch,
They’ll tell him they’re the mighty tribe
An no one else is much.
They’ll kill his deer and net his fish
And clear away his wood,
And frequently remark to him
They do it for his good.
They he will scalp and he will shoot
And he will burn and slay
And break the treaties he has made
– – And, children, so will they.
We won’t go into all of that
For it’s too long a story,
And some is brave and some is sad
And nearly all is gory.
But, just remember this about
Our ancestors so dear:
They didn’t find any empty land,
The Indians were here.
Benet, Rosemary and Stephen Vincent.
A Book of Americans. NY: Holt, 1961
10 Domina101 Tips Video
I receive numerous requests for answers that I’ve already written and most of those answers are presented inMy 10 Domina101 Tips offering. So, [snark alert!] since too many folks operate with the attention span of gnats and reading more than 140 characters seems to be an issue, here’s a little video that outlines the basics. IF you want more detailed info, READ.
Tools To Manage Psycho-Induced Stress & “Fear-Mongering”
While I really do My best to refrain from political commentary, the antics of the thieving-barbarian-in-chief are enhancing the stress factor all around. You cannot help but notice the intense rise in insidious killings of Americans by Americans on American soil being repeated and repeated and repeated in the ghoul-feeding-frenzy-media (and NOT the Halloween-fun kind).
We are under attack by a non-stop, barrage of negativity on Our senses and sensibilities. So, before anyone else pops a gasket, and so that We can exercise SELF-CONTROL and BE examples of the BEST rather than the worst of Americans, here are FREE Tools to strengthen your clarity and calm.
Chill Out Training Technique: The Tapping Solution I swear by this technique for Myself and it totally works for Me and everyone who chooses to work it. It is a physiological-neurolinguistic technique that you can learn in less than 4 minutes (see video) to instantly gain and maintain control of your emotional states. Try it for yourself! You’ll be amazed!
Subscribe To Daily GOOD NEWS Reports. I highly recommend:
Happify is the single destination for effective, evidence-based solutions for better emotional health and wellbeing in the 21st century. Happify brings you effective tools and programs to help you take control of your feelings and thoughts with proven techniques developed by leading scientists and experts who’ve been studying evidence-based interventions in the fields of positive psychology, mindfulness, and cognitive behavioral therapy for decades.
Daily Good. The world is full of everyday heroes and true stories of transformation. DailyGood aims to shine a light on these stories and in doing so to change the nature of our conversations. If it can spread a few smiles along the way it’s purpose is served. Readers receive a news story, an inspiring quote, and a suggested action that each person can take to make a difference in their own lives and the world around them. I look forward to receiving these emails!
2 of My favorite sources for good news reports are the Good News Network which has been inspiring people to be more optimistic with positive news from all over the world for more than 20 years, and Sunny Skyz which has only positive, uplifting and inspiring news stories from around the world.
Believe it or not, several, major news organizations actually have a “good news” section. Some offerings come from The Huffington Post, MSN, Today, and Fox News… but there’s a really good probability that it’s fake news!
Opportunities for NEW submissives & FUN Assistants
NOTE:I am NOW interviewing staff, assistants, and performers for My New Venture — CLICK HERE to apply! Performers, please prepare a short video (or detailed photo montage) of your performance to show Me. Staff, please prepare check-able references. All others, see below.
I regularly offer opportunities for cool people to experience the glories of My Domain and Events by offering their services to assist Me and My Guests. I am interested in “keepers” — people who will become part of the Fetish Family and be worthy of being adored — and this is the perfect chance to test the waters! These opportunities are NOT limited to submissives. Dominants, switches, “whatevers” are encouraged to apply as long as you can respectfully pay attention and follow instructions. And if I really like you, I may invite you to spend some time with Me in the sun-sea-sand!
I cannot stress enough how important it is to approach Me properly. This is one of the primary reasons I offer My Complimentary Fetish Etiquette Guide: How To Present yourself To A Mistressfor free. READ IT before you ruin an opportunity to find what you’re craving in your fetish life. Not only are first impressions lasting, they’ll cost you if you’re missing simple, subtle nuances.
I am continuing My interviews for hardcore masochists for private and public performances, Mentee training sessions, and Play — of course! Play, Play, Play! This opportunity may include all-expense paid travel.
Please note:I have planned Personal Play Soirees for new associates to join Me and My Fetish Friends. I will not announce these Events to the public, but new folks who vibe with Me will definitely be invited for decadent delights Mss. Didi* style!
Webcam Workshops
Coming Soon!
REMINDER: My Webcam Workshops and My Events are fundraisers for My Charities.x
Why Take These Webcam Workshops?
Well, you don’t have to — you can always read everything I’ve graciously provided for free on AskMssDidi.com. Although a lot of what I present in My Workshops is not written there, you can always spend even more time figuring out what else you need to know and keep your fingers crossed to search the internet to find intelligent information. If you take My Webcam Workshops, you can spend 90 minutes enjoying the condensed version of what I’ve written and more AND ask Me questions directly in real-time. Of course, you can always continue being as happy, successful, and satisfied with your Fetish situations, doing what you’re already doing… Isn’t it wonderful to have the choice? More Info…
Be certain you’re onMy Mailing List for other Workshop dates and other announcements.
Tips and Tools to include in your Play Bag for the safest and most excellent Play!
PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay careful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.
I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
The Contents page of AskMssDidi.comhas summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish!
I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely, check it out!
By clicking on any links contained herein, you agree to the terms providedhereand that you are of legal age and not offended by the material contained in these locations.
November News
Coming Soon!
Part 1 of October NEWS!
October 11th & 18th Performance Art Parties ~
My Birthday Delights! Special Project Performer
& Participant Interviews! What Kind of Soiree Guest Are You? Quiz NOWInterviewing Guests & Performers
for My Experiential Theater Project Soirees Donate To My Birthday Charity Fundraiser, Please 10 Domina101 Tips VIDEO Free Tools To “Raze The Crazy” How To Attend My Events Applications Accepted
for Party Service Assistants
It’s My Birthday Season!
~Birthday Soirees – My Experiential Theater & More Staff, Participant & Performer Interviews & FUN Quiz ~Donate to My Birthday Charity Fundraiser ~10 Domina101 Tips VIDEO ~Domina101: “How To Receive” 10/26/17 ~Free Tools To Stay Sane & Calm ~ClassicFetish Resources ~Stimulations
NEXT:Scene To Be Scene! My Experiential Theater Project Soirees October 11th & 18th Events
I’ve started something fabulous ~ again! Last month’s ClassicFetish Experiential Theater Project was so much fun that I’ve been asked to create Soirees in 2 new locations! So, to be fair, I’m rotating participants and interviewing more, respectful Fetish Players, performers with Fetish Skills, and voyeurs who demonstrate safety in activities!
NOTE: if you missed My Complimentary Admission during the “previews” stage of My ClassicFetish Experiential Theater Soirees, you can now indulge in all-inclusive, participation for the ridiculously, generous amount of a $30 donation to My Birthday Charity. Special details are provided to attendees.
Again, this year, and every year, I choose to raise money with Charity Fundraising Events for My Birthday Celebrations instead of asking for frivolous gifts. This way, We can all benefit from My Celebrations!
Participation involves party perks (bubbly libations included all night) and some participants may receive expense reimbursement.
You MUST meet with Me in person before being considered for participation — My treat. Details sent to applicants.
AS ALWAYS, follow the carefully-written instructions I have taken the time to write to make sure that We proceed correctly from the very beginning.
Only cool & respectful, Fab Fetish Folks, I really mean it — you have to know how to receive and appreciate a GIFT.There are NO other events with the level of upscale excellence that I’m sharing — are you worthy of this Gift?
And speaking of knowing how to receive a gift, I strongly recommend that you indulge in the quick read that benefits both Dominants and submissives alike:
Remember: the investment you make in your Fetish Education is directly proportionate to the quality of your fetish experience.
Along with the Fabulous Fetishists I’ve known for years, this year’s Birthday Celebrations are going to be some of My Best Events EVER! Stay tuned for Part 2 of My Newsletter as I add more celebrations, including Halloween Happenings!
The Details: MyClassicFetish Experiential Theater Soirees
Take the Quiz to determine what type of participation will be the most fun for you! Have FUN with this 2-minute quiz to find your best role in My ClassicFetish Experiential Theater Events!
This Project is a public experience in an extremely private and exclusive environment(s).
Click for larger image
I’m interviewing and inviting moresafe, sane, consensual, respectful, and cool:
Fabulous Skilled Fetishists who have fine-tuned their techniques
Performers of a variety of types
Voyeurs and Fetish-Fashionable Folks who are sociable
Assistants to serve and/or sub
Security to keep an eye out
Participants MUST be:
Stylish and wear Fetish attire that fits. You ARE part of the evening’s delights; “Peacock,” which means, Rock your Beauty! Everyone has Beauty; bring it.
Respectful of staff, audience, each other, and understand and adhere to The Rules
Discrete andfollow My instructions, whether you’re Dominant or submissive or whatever — there’s only one Leader and it’s Me
Able to interact with the audience, staff, and each other
Civilized, cultured, have manners, and able to hold an intelligent conversation — no politics, religion, battle of the sexes
Cool and comfortable with upscale (and often, famous) groups of people
Play nice, be polite and be safe, sane, and consensual in all things
Able to hang out late on a school night (I recommend arranging to go in late to work the next day for day-job folks) — this is a once-in-a-lifetime type of experience for most
Able to appreciate that you’re being invited to participate in one of My Extravagant Events for a small donation to My Birthday Charity.
I continue to interview new folks for regular and “visiting” positions in My Domain.See below.
Please Donate To My Birthday Charity
Again, this year, instead of requesting frivolous gifts for My Birthday, I ask that you give the gift of clean water to people who don’t even have a well to drink from! There are a billion people on the planet who don’t have clean water to even drink. Think about this the next time you enjoy a shower.
Charity: Water is a non-profit bringing clean and safe drinking water to people in developing nations. Please . Every amount counts and makes a difference.
FYI, private donors cover the operating costs of Charity Water so that 100{493547fe19351e34cdd0e3bd3bea1b8df8a58e3eed9a9c738dcd9b49d78ba6ea} of all public donations can go directly to water project costs!
I receive numerous requests for answers that I’ve already written and most of those answers are presented inMy 10 Domina101 Tips offering. So, [snark alert!] since too many folks operate with the attention span of gnats and reading more than 140 characters seems to be an issue, here’s a little video that outlines the basics. IF you want more detailed info, READ.
Domina101 Online Lecture and Q&A
Wednesday 10/25/17 – 7:45-9:45pm: How To Receive What You Desire
While being one of My most fabulous creations yet, My ClassicFetish Experiential Theater Project has also been a sad adventure of seeing how people do NOT believe they are worthy of what they desire as demonstrated by self-sabotage.
This Domina101 Session will address ways that You may (unknowingly) sabotage Your Domain Desires and I will offer exercises and techniques to get and keep You on track to Maintain Your DomDomain Your Way in Happiness.
The Domina101 Collective Training via webcam and in person in NYC is in full swing! Enjoy a comfortable environment to learn, to share, and make personal connections to support Your Dominance.
Tools To Manage Psycho-Induced Stress & “Fear-Mongering”
While I really do My best to refrain from political commentary, the antics of the thieving-barbarian-in-chief are enhancing the stress factor all around. You cannot help but notice the intense rise in insidious killings of Americans by Americans on American soil being repeated and repeated and repeated in the ghoul-feeding-frenzy-media (and NOT the Halloween-fun kind).
We are under attack by a non-stop, barrage of negativity on Our senses and sensibilities. So, before anyone else pops a gasket, and so that We can exercise SELF-CONTROL and BE examples of the BEST rather than the worst of Americans, here are FREE Tools to strengthen your clarity and calm.
Chill Out Training Technique: The Tapping Solution I swear by this technique for Myself and it totally works for Me and everyone who chooses to work it. It is a physiological-neurolinguistic technique that you can learn in less than 4 minutes (see video) to instantly gain and maintain control of your emotional states. Try it for yourself! You’ll be amazed!
Subscribe To Daily GOOD NEWS Reports. I highly recommend:
Happify is the single destination for effective, evidence-based solutions for better emotional health and wellbeing in the 21st century. Happify brings you effective tools and programs to help you take control of your feelings and thoughts with proven techniques developed by leading scientists and experts who’ve been studying evidence-based interventions in the fields of positive psychology, mindfulness, and cognitive behavioral therapy for decades.
Daily Good. The world is full of everyday heroes and true stories of transformation. DailyGood aims to shine a light on these stories and in doing so to change the nature of our conversations. If it can spread a few smiles along the way it’s purpose is served. Readers receive a news story, an inspiring quote, and a suggested action that each person can take to make a difference in their own lives and the world around them. I look forward to receiving these emails!
2 of My favorite sources for good news reports are the Good News Network which has been inspiring people to be more optimistic with positive news from all over the world for more than 20 years, and Sunny Skyz which has only positive, uplifting and inspiring news stories from around the world.
Believe it or not, several, major news organizations actually have a “good news” section. Some offerings come from The Huffington Post, MSN, Today, and Fox News… but there’s a really good probability that it’s fake news!
Opportunities for NEW submissives & FUN Assistants
NOTE:I am NOW interviewing staff, assistants, and performers for My New Venture — CLICK HERE to apply! Performers, please prepare a short video (or detailed photo montage) of your performance to show Me. Staff, please prepare check-able references. All others, see below.
I regularly offer opportunities for cool people to experience the glories of My Domain and Events by offering their services to assist Me and My Guests. I am interested in “keepers” — people who will become part of the Fetish Family and be worthy of being adored — and this is the perfect chance to test the waters! These opportunities are NOT limited to submissives. Dominants, switches, “whatevers” are encouraged to apply as long as you can respectfully pay attention and follow instructions. And if I really like you, I may invite you to spend some time with Me in the sun-sea-sand!
I cannot stress enough how important it is to approach Me properly. This is one of the primary reasons I offer My Complimentary Fetish Etiquette Guide: How To Present yourself To A Mistressfor free. READ IT before you ruin an opportunity to find what you’re craving in your fetish life. Not only are first impressions lasting, they’ll cost you if you’re missing simple, subtle nuances.
I am continuing My interviews for hardcore masochists for private and public performances, Mentee training sessions, and Play — of course! Play, Play, Play! This opportunity may include all-expense paid travel.
Please note:I have planned Personal Play Soirees for new associates to join Me and My Fetish Friends. I will not announce these Events to the public, but new folks who vibe with Me will definitely be invited for decadent delights Mss. Didi* style!
Webcam Workshops
Coming Soon!
REMINDER: My Webcam Workshops and My Events are fundraisers for My Charities.x
Why Take These Webcam Workshops?
Well, you don’t have to — you can always read everything I’ve graciously provided for free on AskMssDidi.com. Although a lot of what I present in My Workshops is not written there, you can always spend even more time figuring out what else you need to know and keep your fingers crossed to search the internet to find intelligent information. If you take My Webcam Workshops, you can spend 90 minutes enjoying the condensed version of what I’ve written and more AND ask Me questions directly in real-time. Of course, you can always continue being as happy, successful, and satisfied with your Fetish situations, doing what you’re already doing… Isn’t it wonderful to have the choice? More Info…
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Tips and Tools to include in your Play Bag for the safest and most excellent Play!
PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay careful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.
I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
The Contents page of AskMssDidi.comhas summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish!
I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely, check it out!
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And break the treaties he has made
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I’ve made it quite clear that I do not want any trump supporters at any of My Events or anywhere near Me. The same way the barbarians feel they have the right to be racists, sexists, every-kind-of-ismists, I exercise My Rights to Maintain MY Domain MY Way — especially since MY Domain is not any kind of pretense of a democracy.
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How’s Your New Year’s Resolution To Get Fit Going…?
As I mentioned in My previous Newsletter, My ClassicFetish
activities! If you missed it before, NOW IS YOUR CHANCE to get on board and cruise (or fly) to the sun-sea-sand for a weekend as part of the festivities! 
Many Blessings upon the donors for . And a very special thank you to the anonymous donor (public fundraising page)! Please feel free to contact Me so that I may thank you properly!
Well, those hurricanes are the reason that I will be in NYC a lot more often than I wanted to be this winter. So, since I must endure the chill, as always I make the best of things and I am planning ClassicFetish
Only cool & respectful, Fab Fetish Folks, I really mean it — you have to know how to receive and appreciate a GIFT. 
While I really do My best to refrain from political commentary, the antics of the thieving-barbarian-in-chief are enhancing the stress factor all around. You cannot help but notice the intense rise in insidious killings of Americans by Americans on American soil being repeated and repeated and repeated in the ghoul-feeding-frenzy-media (and NOT the Halloween-fun kind).
First, My many thanks to all of the wonderful people who invited Me to their Thanksgiving feasts! It was so thoughtful and gracious of them and I consider it quite an honor to be asked to share their dinners with them. Really, I am truly aware of how blessed I am to be cared for by so many. (To those who invited Me and read this, I expect you to be laughing at most of it as you do! Be certain to invite Me to other gatherings, though!)
Only cool & respectful, Fab Fetish Folks, I really mean it — you have to know how to receive and appreciate a GIFT. 
