Closed Adoption: Privacy and Its Implications in Colorado 14 Apr 2025, 2:00 pm

Closed Adoption: Privacy and Implications in Colorado

By Beth Heath

Every woman’s journey is unique. What works for some might not work for others, and you celebrate your accomplishments and face your challenges your own way. If you are having an unexpected pregnancy, it is a lot to process, and finding your path may not be easy. After careful consideration, you might decide to place your baby for a closed adoption in Colorado. 

There are three types of adoption: open, semi-open, and closed. In open adoptions, birth parents and adoptive parents remain connected through varying levels of communication. Semi-open adoptions use a third party or adoption agency to share information between birth parents and adoptive parents. In a closed adoption, you do not share private information with the adoptive parents or your child. When making your adoption plan, you will choose which type of adoption you want.

Regardless of whether you choose an open, sem-open, or closed adoption, our agency will be here for you. Adoption Choices of Colorado is a licensed private adoption agency that understands your adoption with professional expertise. Connect with our certified adoption specialist and learn if a closed adoption is right for you.

Closed Adoption in Colorado

In Colorado, your personal reproductive choices are your right. If you have an unplanned pregnancy, you might choose to place your baby for adoption. Today, open adoptions are the most common type. However, not all situations are the same. Some women decide a closed adoption is the best choice for them and their child.

In a closed adoption, your privacy is paramount. You will not know your child or the adoptive family, and they will not know you. Closed adoption does not allow for communication or a future relationship. Perhaps giving your baby up for adoption is becoming a more challenging experience than you expected. You may wish to put this pregnancy and adoption behind you. If so, a closed adoption might be best for you.

During your pregnancy, you will want to find reliable resources about adoption. Contact Adoption Choices of Colorado to connect with an adoption specialist and learn about closed adoption in Colorado. We can provide pregnancy support. If you are eligible, you may be able to receive some of our financial assistance.

Benefits of a Closed Colorado Adoption

If you are considering adoption in Colorado and do not want contact with the adoptive family, choose a closed adoption. A closed adoption protects you, your baby, and the adopted family’s privacy. Some women do not want people to know they placed a child for adoption. Other women find it easier to move on by not staying connected.

Through your pregnancy, you will learn more about the adoption process. During adoption, you may be looking for closure. If you did not plan this pregnancy, it is understandable that you may want your life back.

In a closed adoption, your adoption is complete when your child is with a loving adoptive family. You may not be able to do more. Through adoption, you are giving a gift of love ,which is more than enough.

Choosing closed adoption may not be easy, but it is your choice. At Adoption Choices of Colorado, you can speak with our adoption specialists and certified counselors. You are our priority, and we can help you achieve the adoption you want.

Challenges of Closed Adoption

Every adoption has its challenges. Closed adoption will break your connection with the child you carried for nine months. Although this break might be what you need, it may still be overwhelming to experience. A closed adoption seals adoption info, and only a court order can open it.

In Colorado, adoptees have a right to know their birth parents and the circumstances of their adoption. Once your child turns 18, they may access your adoption record, including your identifying information. Even if you choose closed adoption, your grown child may still look for you in the future.

Only choose closed adoption if you are confident in your choice. Closed adoption is final. If you might want to eventually know your child, closed adoption might not be for you, although it is possible to change the type of adoption afterward, it is not easy.  

If you are unsure about closed adoption, you can customize your communication preferences in an open or semi-open adoption. You can tailor your adoption to meet your comfort level. You may not want to stay connected, but maybe you want to write a letter or share a photo. If you have any doubts about saying goodbye to your child, consider limited open or semi-open adoptions instead.  

Connect with Adoption Choices of Colorado to learn about other birth mothers like yourself. Hear their stories and gain their strength. Find out which type of adoption is good for you.

Choosing Closed Adoption in Colorado

Closed adoption has challenges, but it can also have benefits. Although closed adoption is less common today, it still provides nearly complete closure. Giving your baby up for adoption does not have to complicate your life. It is normal if you are not ready to be in your child’s life.

Sharing the most intimate details of your life might be too much for you to accept. By choosing closed adoption, you protect your privacy. You also protect your child’s and the adoptive family’s privacy.

Reliable information about adoption is necessary to make educated decisions. Ask around and search online for credible resources. Join adoption support groups and learn self-love. Adoption Choices of Colorado is a licensed private adoption agency. Our adoption specialists work with you to create your pregnancy and adoption plan. Contact us today and learn if closed adoption is right for you.

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Semi-Open Adoption in Colorado: A Guide to Mediated Communication and Connection 10 Apr 2025, 2:00 pm

Semi-Open Adoption in Colorado: A Guide to Mediated Communication and Connection

By Nila Soleimani 

There are three major adoption types to consider when placing your child for adoption: open, semi-open, and closed . An open adoption allows you to remain in contact with your child without being mediated by a third party. An open adoption allows for unrestricted contact with your child after adoption. This means you can set up video chats, phone calls, personal messages, and other contact forms freely. 

A closed adoption is when you choose to have no contact with your baby or the adoptive family. Personal information between you, your child, and the adoptive family is not exchanged. 

A semi-open adoption is in between open and closed adoptions. While open and closed adoptions are more frequently encountered, semi-open adoption offers a unique middle ground. 

This adoption type provides a mediated level of connection between the birth parent(s) and the adoptive family. Contact is typically filtered by an adoption agency. While direct, ongoing contact might not occur, updates and communication can be exchanged. 

If you are thinking about semi-open adoption, contact Adoption Choices of Colorado. We are a private, non-profit adoption agency licensed by the state. We have been assisting birth parents, children, and adoptive parents since 2002.

Maintaining Connection with Semi-Open Adoption in Colorado

Semi-open adoption offers a middle ground between closed and open adoptions, allowing for some ongoing contact while protecting privacy. You can still stay in contact with your child through a third party. A third party mediator could be an adoption agency. 

Third party mediators monitor and advise the contact between you, your child, and their adoptive family. Semi-open adoption is ideal for birth mothers who want to maintain formal boundaries. You can connect with your child through filtered, emails, letters, and more. 

You also can set legal boundaries between you, your child, and their adoptive family with a third party. This can also help you find the right level of involvement for you. If you are considering giving your baby up for adoption but want some level of privacy, semi-open adoption might be for you.

Flexibility and Emotional Support within a Semi-Open Adoption

Choosing the kind of adoption you want for you and your child is important in the adoption process.Semi-open adoption provides flexibility and emotional support. The level and frequency of contact can be tailored to everyone’s comfort level and adjusted over time if needed. 

There is a lot of flexibility offered by semi-open adoption. This makes it a good choice if you are considering adoption. However there are also disadvantages to a semi-open adoption. You will not have direct contact with your child, as contact with your child is through a third party. 

You will not have unrestricted contact with your child after adoption. Direct, ongoing connections will not occur, only updates and communication through mediators. This may not be for if you want to maintain a direct connection with your child.

If you are experiencing an unplanned pregnancy, semi-open adoption may be the right adoption choice for you. Selecting semi-open adoption can help ensure you have emotional support for you and your child. You can get updates on your child and their family. Having these updates can provide you with peace and security in your choice. 

You can also provide your child with emotional support through connecting with them this way. They can ask you questions and help them understand why you chose adoption. Remember, adoption is a deeply personal choice. 

You can show them how your decision was driven by love and selflessness and the desire to provide them the best life possible. For more adoption info, contact our adoption agency.

Seeking Professional Guidance with Adoption Choices of Colorado

Understanding the various adoption options empowers women like you to make choices aligned with your individual circumstance and preferences. Adoption Choices of Colorado is here to help you make an informed decision in your adoption journey. Our staff has a genuine commitment to providing an empathetic and empowering experience to everyone in the adoption process. 

We understand that placing your child for adoption is a very important decision. Our professionals can help you with an adoption plan, and choosing your preferred adoptive family as well as adoption type. We have many resources and support to help you in your adoption journey. If you are a birth mother thinking about giving your baby up for adoption, choose our adoption agency.

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Empowering Birth Mothers: Taking Control of Your Colorado Adoption Journey 7 Apr 2025, 2:00 pm

Empowering Birth Mothers: Taking Control of Your Colorado Adoption Journey

By Nila Soleimani 

As a birth mother, you can have confidence that you have control over your adoption journey. You are the one in control of how your adoption process will play out. You can also create an adoption plan that reflects your wishes. A birth mother can make the decisions about her birth plan, adoptive family, and adoption plan. Empowering birth mothers is what our agency strives to do best.

Support systems for your adoption are available to you through Adoption Choices of Colorado. We are a private, non-profit adoption agency licensed by the state of Colorado. We have resources, including counselors, adoption specialists, and support groups. You have full power to decide every aspect of this very important decision in your life. 

A Birth Mother’s Control in the Adoption Process in Colorado

You, as the birth mother, are in control of your adoption plan. We can help you customize a plan attuned to your wishes and comfort. During the adoption process, you will have full authority to choose the type of adoption you want. You can also choose the level of contact you would like with the adoptive family in your adoption plan. 

There are multiple adoption options. The three most common plans are open, semi-open, and closed adoptions. 

If you are thinking about giving your baby up for adoption, an open adoption might be right for you. An open adoption is when full contact occurs between the birth mother and the adoptive parents. If desired, the child will be able to contact their mother in the future. Contact can include phone calls or in-person meetings. You can also exchange contact information, mailed letters, and pictures. You can keep contact in different ways depending on what is agreed upon with the adoptive family. 

A closed adoption means there is no contact between the birth family and the adoptive family. This is until the child is a legal-aged adult and can choose. A semi-open adoption is when contact between you and the adoptive family exists but is limited. This adoption plan is somewhere between an open and closed adoption. This contact between you and your child may only be through phone calls, videos, pictures, or letters. 

In a semi-open adoption, contact is facilitated by Adoption Choices of Colorado. We use ChildConnect, a secure and confidential online portal. It is up to you to decide how much or little communication you will want with your child. Identifying information is limited, which may be why this adoption type interests you. A semi-open adoption has privacy like a closed adoption but allows for communication like an open adoption.

The Birth Mother’s Decision-Making Power in the Adoption Process

Birth mothers get to choose the adoptive family after reviewing and selecting a good fit for their child. We have families waiting to adopt a child and have created profiles for you to look at. You can explore prospective parent profiles to find the right match for your child. Our families are thoroughly screened with a home study and certified as adoptive parents.

You have the choice to create a birth plan that prioritizes your comfort during your delivery. Available to you by Adoption Choices of Colorado is a Lamaze/Birthing Education Coach. They can do private classes with you to help you feel comfortable and ready for your delivery. 

You can also add which family members you want in the hospital as part of your birth plan. Additionally, you can choose if you wish to see or speak with your child’s adoptive family while in the hospital. You can consider whether you want your child’s adoptive family in the room with you during delivery as well. 

Another thing to consider in your plan is who will be the first person to hold your child. You can make these specifications so your delivery will go how you want. For more adoption info and help, check out our agency.

Support Systems Available for a Birth Mother in Colorado

If you are thinking about giving your baby up for adoption, look to Adoption Choices of Colorado for support. We have been assisting birth parents, children, and adoptive parents in Colorado since 2002. We can provide you with counseling and legal representation at no cost. Our specialists can counsel anyone involved in the adoption process, especially you. 

We also have a post-placement support group for birth mothers. If you are a birth mother going through an unplanned pregnancy and considering adoption, contact our adoption agency.

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Coordinating Post-Placement Communication and Visits in an Open Adoption 3 Apr 2025, 2:00 pm

Coordinating Post-Placement Communication and Visits in an Open Adoption

By Tyler Newhouse

Consider an open adoption when exploring your adoption options as a birth parent. Unlike semi-open and closed adoptions, an open adoption gives you the ability to communicate with your child’s adoptive family. This empowers you to maintain a connection with your child. Being able to check on your child’s progress provides you with peace of mind. Peace of mind is one of the reasons why many birth parents choose open adoptions. However, maintaining post-placement communication is critical in a healthy open adoption. 

If you have questions about how to begin creating an open adoption communication plan, we can help. Our professionals at Adoption Choices of Colorado can help. 

Open Adoption and Post-Placement Contact

As the birth parent, you have a say in how your child grows up. For example, you may want to ensure that your child develops knowledge of their family origins or culture. Perhaps, for other reasons, you may wish for the opposite. 

Ideally, your decisions and views for your child are honored by the adoptive family. Ultimately, it is up to the adoptive family how your child is raised. Ideally, you will place your child with an adoptive family that you trust and know will honor your wishes.

Successful post-placement communication requires clear expectations. At Adoption Choices of Colorado, we are experts in guiding birth parents through the adoption process. We believe it is essential that you have the correct adoption info before placing your baby up for adoption. That is why we highly encourage birth parents to call us for a free consultation. All information on our website is provided free of charge. 

There are no hidden fees, and you are under no obligation to follow through with an adoption after the call. Remember, you only sign away your parental rights at the very end of the adoption process. You should only sign after you are fully aware of the expectations of the adoption. 

Additionally, an unplanned pregnancy does not limit your adoption options. The decision is always yours, and you are not obligated to continue with the adoption should you change your mind before signing the papers.

The Importance of Consistent Communication After Adoption 

While visits and communication between open adoptions vary significantly, it is important to remain respectful. Both parties should be aware of their expectations of one another. Your adoption specialist handles all expectations, which are then communicated to you and the adoptive family. Unrealistic expectations are a significant block in many post-placement relationships.

Again, it should be emphasized that all these can be mitigated through early communication in the adoption process. Having a clear plan helps reduce misunderstandings. A post-placement visit plan should be one of the first things you ask your adoption specialist about when considering adoption.

Planning Successful Post-Adoption Visits

Visits in an open adoption can be meaningful for the child and both families. Proper planning helps create a positive experience. One of the first steps is communicating when and how often visits should occur. The second step is to plan how long visits should be. The goal is to ensure neither party feels pressured to give unwanted time. One way to do this is by starting with shorter visits. 

You can then adjust to longer visits as time goes on. It is also recommended that you choose a relaxing setting, such as a park, although the ideal place can vary between adoptive families.

It is important to keep both parties involved. This can be achieved in many ways, such as through board games or sharing a meal. Consider preparing ahead of time for the visit. Additionally, consider sharing important adoption info with the child during this stage to help deepen understanding. 

In any case, setting clear expectations ensures that the child benefits from the experience. It reduces the likelihood that the child becomes confused or disoriented. Phone and video calls are great ways to strengthen emotional bonds. Photo and video updates are another great way to maintain communication. 

You may also consider creating private social media groups to share updates securely between you and the adoptive family. All modes of communication provide you with updates on your child’s growth.

Reach out to Adoption Agencies to Get Started

Giving up your baby for adoption should not be a stressful task. If you are a birth parent considering adoption, reach out to us. An open adoption provides you with the reassurance that your child is growing up in a stable and loving home. Post-placement visits require thoughtful planning and consistent communication between both parties. But when done right, they allow your child to grow and feel supported. 

At Adoption Choices of Colorado, we help birth parents maintain meaningful connections with their children even after adoption. 

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Navigating Adoption: The Pros and Cons of In-State and Out-of-State Agencies 31 Mar 2025, 2:00 pm

Navigating Adoption: The Pros and Cons of In-State and Out-of-State Agencies 

By Nila Soleimani 

Choosing the right adoption agency is very important in the adoption process. You have the option of selecting an in-state or out-of-state agency. There are advantages and disadvantages to both options. Depending on what is most important to you in your adoption decision, one may be more beneficial to you. Your interests and values might be aligned more with only one agency. Whether you want an in-state or out-of-state adoption agency is up to you. 

Adoption Choices of Colorado is a licensed adoption agency that can help you with your adoption needs. We have knowledgeable and experienced specialists on our staff who care about assisting you. Our agency hopes to make you feel more informed about your options in your adoption journey.

The Advantages and Disadvantages of An In-State Adoption Agency

There are many advantages to choosing an in-state adoption agency. These advantages include:

• Expertise with local laws
• Easier paperwork
• Access to local resources
• A faster adoption process

Adoption specialists of an in-state adoption agency know the rules and regulations of your area. Local agencies also tend to work faster and are more efficient in helping the birth mother and adoptees. Your baby will usually get adopted sooner than with an out-of-state adoption agency. 

Local adoption agencies in Colorado know how to handle the documentation and forms needed for adoption. These documentation and forms are required for birth mothers in their home state. This reduces the potential for any delays that could occur. There is also more access to local resources for birth mothers in the adoption process.

There are also disadvantages to choosing an in-state adoption agency. Some of these disadvantages are:

• Potentially smaller family pool
• Longer wait times
• Limited cultural/religious choices

Some difficulties lie with choosing an in-state adoption agency. The downsides include having fewer families to choose from. There will also be longer wait times when there are fewer adoptive families to choose from. Your adoption options will be more limited, especially if you are looking for someone with the same cultural or religious beliefs as you.

The Advantages and Disadvantages of Choosing An Out-of-State Adoption Agency

Choosing an out-of-state adoption agency comes with its own positive and negative aspects. The benefits of selecting an out-of-state adoption agency are:

• Wider family pool
• Catering to specific culture/religious preferences
• Unique programs

Working with an out-of-state adoption service gives you more diverse options for choosing an adoptive family. You can choose from a broader range of families for your baby. An out-of-state adoption agency can offer more unique programs than your in-state one. You can also select a family that meets your cultural or religious preferences. 

There are also negative aspects that come with selecting an out-of-state adoption agency. The negative aspects of choosing an out-of-state adoption agency are:

• Potential complexities with unfamiliar laws
• Travel challenges
• Limited access to local support

We want birth mothers to also be aware of the downsides to selecting an out-of-state adoption agency. If you choose an out-of-state agency, there will be different laws and regulations that you might not be familiar with. This can slow the adoption process down. You will also have to travel regularly to another state. Traveling can be time-consuming and costly for the birth mother to have to go through. You can also have limited access to local support if you choose to go with an out-of-state agency.

Resources Available While Choosing An Adoption Agency

Adoption Choices of Colorado is a private, non-profit adoption agency licensed by the state. We offer emotional support services to birth mothers here in Colorado. Immediate support is one of the positive aspects of working with an in-state adoption agency. We have a monthly support group and offer lifelong adoption-related counseling as well. 

Our adoption service includes private counseling sessions, which allows you a safe and private space to express yourself. A trained professional will also be available to you. Your professional will understand that the most challenging time for you can be after your baby is officially adopted. We know that birth mothers need extra love, care, and understanding during those times. If you are going through an unplanned pregnancy and are giving your baby up for adoption, contact our agency. 

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Choosing Adoption If You Are in a Difficult Circumstance 20 Mar 2025, 2:00 pm

Choosing Adoption If You Are in a Difficult Circumstance

By Melissa Baggett

Finding out you are pregnant at the most unexpected time can bring uncertainty and complex emotions. You may be at a point where going through a pregnancy is the last thing you have on your mind. For some birth mothers, a pregnancy can be one more stressor on top of other things they may be dealing with. Choosing adoption if you are in a difficult circumstance may be the best choice for you.

Pregnancy does not always come at the perfect time. Sometimes, you cannot plan for these things to happen. If you are a birth mother struggling with homelessness, addiction, or a difficult living situation, you may feel stuck. Hopeless. Unsure of the next steps to take. Maybe it is time to start considering adoption.

With Adoption Choices of Colorado, we provide birth mothers from all paths of life a second chance. Choosing adoption is to choose a new life for your baby. Adoption is not giving up or abandoning your child but making a sacrifice of motherly love. Through the adoption process, we can provide both you and your baby the support and care you deserve.

Acknowledging Your Struggles – Adoption Can Help

If you are experiencing homelessness, abuse, addiction, or any other struggles, it is essential to acknowledge the immense challenges you are facing. Struggles can cause you to have a lot of fear and anxiety, as well as unpredictable emotions of pregnancy. It takes a lot of strength and courage to reach out for help during these times. 

With Adoption Choices of Colorado, you are not alone in this journey. You have the choice to consider unplanned pregnancy options. We want you to know that choosing adoption is a testament to your love and devotion to your baby. Our team will do everything possible to ensure you and your baby receive the necessary support and resources.

Types of Adoption

You may be ready to choose adoption but still have questions about the process. Will I ever get to see my baby again? What is the adoption process in Colorado like? How do I know my baby will be taken care of? Our experts can help map an adoption plan that fits your wants and needs.

First, you will want to consider what adoption option best suits your journey. There are three adoption options: open, semi-open, and closed. 

Open adoptions are for birth mothers who still want to be in contact with their babies. They have direct access to the adoptive family and usually participate in holidays and events with their baby. 

Semi-open adoptions still have contact, but it is limited and usually done through the agency. The agency acts as the point of contact, and birth mothers can still send pictures and letters to their babies. 

Closed adoptions are entirely shut off from contact with the baby or birth family. Birth mothers will not be updated on their baby’s progress nor have any involvement in their lives. Identifying information will not be shared between the two parties.

All three options have different pros and cons, and our adoption team can walk you through each process. Just know you have the complete agency to make the best decision for yourself and your baby.

The Adoption Process with Adoption Choices of Colorado 

The adoption journey may seem overwhelming, but you will have one of our team members guide you through every step:

1. Initial Consultation. The first step is a consultation at one of our adoption agencies. We will walk you through the process of adoption in Colorado.
2. Create an Adoption Plan.  We’ll guide you through creating an adoption plan that best fits your needs. We’ll consider your values and preferences and the type of adoption.
3. Choose the Adoptive Family.  We’ll interview potential adoption families to determine the best fit for your baby. You can create your perimeters of personal aspects you’d like to consider.
4. Prenatal Care. We can help you find a prenatal doctor to schedule an appointment with. Prenatal care is essential for you and the baby to address any health concerns.

Support and Resources for Adoptions

If you are a birth mother facing an unplanned pregnancy amid a difficult situation, there is support for you. No matter what you may be experiencing, such as addiction, abuse, or homelessness, our adoption agencies in Colorado have resources.

For our birth mothers, we provide free counseling services as they go through the adoption journey. The adoption journey can be complex and emotionally exhausting, and it is important to have someone to listen to you. In addition, our counselors can provide guidance and legal options regarding difficult situations, ensuring you receive the necessary care.

If you are struggling with homelessness, our offices can connect you with government-funded grants or women’s shelters. For those struggling with addiction, we can connect you to a rehab center for treatment and care. If you are living in an abusive household, we can guide you through the legal process to ensure you are protected.

Whatever you are going through, our team will not judge your situation. Our priority is to make sure you and your baby are cared for as you undergo the adoption process. 

Ready for the Next Steps? Call Us to Start the Adoption Process

If you are a birth mother needing unplanned pregnancy options, our team at Adoption Choices of Colorado is here to help. We are the leading team in adoption Colorado. Contact us today to schedule your free consultation and take those next steps.

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Becoming a Surrogate Mother: Green Flags in Surrogacy 19 Mar 2025, 2:00 pm

Becoming a Surrogate Mother: Green Flags in Surrogacy

By Beth Heath

Last week, you met up with your friend, Kiesha, who you had not seen since school. Back then, the two of you were inseparable, but the years got away from you. She just posted a video that got your attention. In the video, she has a swollen belly and gleefully exclaimed that it is her seventh month. She said she would miss the little guy while preparing herself a fruit and yogurt smoothie. You see that Kiesha is a gestational surrogate, or a surrogate mother. 

This got you thinking. You knew surrogacy was a thing, but now, you want to learn more. So, you arranged a coffee date with Kiesha, but maybe just a berry infusion for her.

You meet Kiesha, and she orders a croissant. The two of you chatted for nearly an hour. She could not stay longer because she was on her way to work. Before missing your chance, you ask, “What is it like being a surrogate?” Kieshia gives you a giant smile and says, “It’s awesome. I love being pregnant.” Like thousands of other women each year, Kiesha is a healthy and happy surrogate mother.

Adoption and Surrogacy Choices of Colorado is a licensed and certified private surrogacy agency in Colorado. We can help you understand gestational surrogacy and provide reliable information and resources. Choosing surrogacy is a serious decision, and finding educated answers begins with trusted professionals. Contact Adoption and Surrogacy Choices of Colorado and learn more about surrogacy. It may be a good choice for you.

Building a Positive Surrogacy Experience

Simply, a surrogate shares her life with a loving family. When you choose to become a surrogate mother, you are choosing to give the gift of life. Few requests are bigger than asking a woman to carry someone else’s child. Surrogates are loving and caring women who create families and unite parents with a child.

“Surrogacy” is made of two Latin words, “super-“ and “-rogare”. “Super-rogare” is Latin for “to over ask”. To over-ask is an excellent way to describe surrogacy. Surrogacy is more than choosing a person to be a substitute. It is an “over-ask” for a woman who chooses to be a gestational surrogate; but she happily accepts. It is her gift of love.

Gestational surrogacy is possible through the modern medical advancements of in vitro fertilization (IVF) and surrogate intrauterine gestation. The parents who sponsor a surrogacy are called intended parents. They are either a loving couple or an individual looking to start a family. There is limitless diversity among intended parents.

An embryo can be from each intended parent, or it can be reproductive material from a donor. You carry an intended parents’ embryo through the fetus’s gestation until the delivery of their baby. Adoption and Surrogacy Choices of Colorado can help you share the wonderful experience of surrogacy. Use our specialized professional experience to answer your questions.

Green Flags in Surrogacy Agencies and Clinics

If you are wondering “How can I become a Surrogate?” You will want to do your research. Even if you know your intended parents, finding a licensed surrogacy agency is essential. There are benefits to working with an agency that is safe, educated, and practiced.

• A licensed private surrogacy agency can protect your rights and explain compensation throughout your surrogacy.
• Licensed private surrogacy agencies cover pregnancy expenses for surrogacy mothers and compensate mothers for their pregnancy.
• Certified counselors will help you fully understand the surrogacy process and your possible challenges. Certified surrogacy counselors give extra support throughout your surrogacy.
• Every action by your surrogacy agency should be transparent throughout your surrogacy. Information should easily flow from intended parents, to your surrogacy agency, and to you, as the surrogate mother.
• The best private surrogacy agencies place the surrogate mother first. They truly understand the value of your gift and sacrifice.

Adoption and Surrogacy Choices of Colorado has all of these benefits and more. We have the experience to create a professional and loving experience by building families. You will be amazed with the possibilities of your surrogacy. Surrogacy begins by learning about the process now.

Green Flags in Intended Parents

With Adoption and Surrogacy Choices of Colorado, you may question the specifics of being a surrogate. You may ask, “What kind of people choose surrogacy to begin a family?” People choose surrogacy when traditional reproductive methods are ineffective or impossible. 

A benefit of working with us is your freedom to choose the prospective parents. Adoption and Surrogacy Choices of Colorado can match you with loving and compatible intended parents. As a surrogate mother, you should consider the intended parents you wish to help.

Intended parents can be chosen based on any criteria, but it is up to you to choose.

• It is common for surrogates to require intended parents to follow their same beliefs and values. Although common, it is not necessary.
• Being a surrogate does not require you to identify as the same race as your intended parents.
• Rest assured, intended parents participate in home studies and background checks. This analysis ensures their suitability as legal guardians, and their capabilities to provide a loving home.
• Choose intended parents who you can love throughout your pregnancy and beyond.

Surrogacy does not have to be complicated. Adoption and Surrogacy Choices of Colorado has testimonials from other surrogate mothers. Here, you can also learn more stories of loving families looking for a child to love.

Choose to Become a Surrogate Mother

You now believe that a woman who becomes a gestational surrogate mother is a special kind of woman. Your friend, Kiesha, is your new role model. You are surprised at how well she is doing. She has a loving son, a great job, and she has it all together. Almost two months later, you see her video giving a beautiful boy to the wonderful expecting intended parents. This is a love you think you can provide.

You ask yourself, “Am I eligible to be a surrogate?” There is a lot to know about surrogacy, but it can be easy. Learn about the surrogacy process and create a surrogacy plan. Your first step is to contact a licensed private surrogacy agency, like Adoption and Surrogacy Choices of Colorado. You can learn about the medical prerequisites and healthcare specifics. In addition, certified counselors will help you understand your choices and legal requirements.

An experienced and professional surrogacy agency can explain your entire surrogacy experience. Reach out to Adoption and Surrogacy Choices of Colorado to learn if surrogacy is a good choice for you.

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10 Questions to Ask an Adoption Agency in Colorado 17 Mar 2025, 2:00 pm

10 Questions to Ask an Adoption Agency in Colorado

By Nila Soleimani 

Considering adoption is a challenging decision that birth mothers make. However, asking questions about the adoption process can help make the decision easier. Choosing the right adoption agency is a significant choice that birth parents will have to decide. 

Adoption Choices of Colorado is a private, nonprofit agency licensed by the state. We have been assisting birth parents, children, and adoptive parents in Colorado since 2002. We are here to help you answer your questions about placing your child for adoption.

As you go about your adoption, there are certain questions you may want to ask an adoption agency. These questions include matters relative to the adoption process and information you must know. If you are nervous, do not worry. Our professionals are here for you.

1. How Do I Choose the Right Adoption Agency?

As a birth mother, you have the option to choose what kind of adoption agency you want. The agency can be either an in-state or out-of-state adoption agency. Adoption Choices of Colorado is a leading adoption agency in Colorado. We prioritize your independence as you explore your adoption options. Our agency can tailor your adoption plan to you and provide comprehensive support through your Colorado adoption. We are a licensed agency that assists birth mothers like you.

2. Does Adoption Choices of Colorado Provide Financial Assistance?

Adoption Choices of Colorado provides court-approved living expenses to birth mothers who need help and meet our qualifications. We can help with rent, food, utilities, sundries, and even your phone bill. Our agency will help you find assistance in paying medical expenses resulting from your pregnancy and delivery. The adoptive family will provide part of your medical expenses not covered by private insurance/state funding. 

3. What Support Services are Available for Adoption in Colorado?

Our agency provides counseling and legal representation to you at no cost. We have many resources to help you during and after your child’s placement. We also have post-placement support groups for birth mothers. Our agency has monthly support groups, and we provide food and childcare to those in need.

4. Are There Post-Placement Support Groups for Birth Mothers in Colorado?

Adoption Choices of Colorado invites anyone who has ever gave a baby up for adoption to join our support groups. No matter what agency, location, or time zone, you are welcome to come to our post-placement support groups. We have monthly support groups on the second Monday of every month. Additionally, we can provide food and childcare. 

5. Will I Get to Choose my Adoptive Family with Adoption Choices of Colorado?

Adoption Choices of Colorado allows you to choose the family you want to adopt your child to. We have waiting families available with profiles you can look at to find your right match. Our families are thoroughly screened with a home study and certified as adoptive parents.

6. Is Housing and Transport Available for Adoption in Colorado?

Adoption Choices of Colorado can help you find or apply for housing. Our adoption service can also help you pay your rent during your pregnancy. Your caseworker will help you with transportation to your doctor appointments. Additionally, they can help transport you to pick up your prescription and take you to legal representation appointments. 

Your caseworkers can help with transportation to apply for Medicaid, food stamps, employment, or furthering your education. We can also help you if you need further assistance like finding you a ride to work or appointments. Your caseworker can help arrange that for you, or provide you with a bus pass. 

7. Does Adoption Choices of Colorado Provide Medical Care?

Adoption Choices of Colorado can help with medical care to birth mothers in need. Our agency can help you find assistance paying medical expenses for your pregnancy and delivery. Your caseworker will also be available to help you find and schedule prenatal appointments. They can also help you set up a hospital tour. A Lamaze/Birthing Education Coach is also available to you through our agency. They can do private classes with you to help you feel comfortable and ready for delivery.

8. How do I Create an Adoption Plan with an Adoption Agency in Colorado?

While the adoption process can be stressful, something that can ease your nerves is an adoption plan. We have a free adoption plan checklist to help you get started. In the checklist you can go through important information in your adoption including:

• Adoption Type
• Birth Plan
• Counseling
• Adoptive Family Preferences
• Utilizing Your Caseworker
• Research and Education

Your caseworker can help you with your formal adoption plan, including the desired contact amount you would like with your child. You can also include your preferred location, education, community, values, and hospital plan. We cannot legally enforce these agreements after placing your child for adoption, so keep clear communication with your adoptive parents.

9. Will I Ever See My Child Again with Adoption Choices of Colorado?

This depends on what kind of adoption and level of openness you choose with the adoptive family. Most adoptions today are either open or semi-open. Open or semi-open adoptions mean you can maintain a relationship with your child throughout your child’s life. Alternatively, if you wish to have no contact with your baby and the adoptive family, you can choose a closed adoption.

10. What if I Change My Mind About My Adoption?

You can change your mind at any point during your adoption until you sign the final relinquishment paperwork. There is no obligation to follow through. Contact Adoption Choices of Colorado and start working with our adoption center without any obligations. You do not have to choose adoption just because you are thinking about it.

Resources Available at Adoption Choices of Colorado

Adoption is a great choice to make as a result of an unplanned pregnancy. You have a chance to give your child the life that you wouldn’t be able to provide them. Adoption is a positive and selfless decision to give your child a stable and loving home. Adoption Choices of Colorado is an adoption service that is committed to connecting birth mothers with resources that they need. Our resources include comprehensive support throughout their adoption journey or financial assistance. Adoption Choices of Colorado is a private and licensed adoption agency in Colorado that is ready to help you. If you are a birth mother at any stage of the adoption process, seeking resources and support, contact us.

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Exploring Your Adoption Options in Colorado 13 Mar 2025, 2:00 pm

Exploring Your Adoption Options in Colorado

By María Gil De León

Choosing adoption is not easy. Adoption can often be an overwhelming decision because of the many ways you can start your adoption journey. It is important to remember that every birth mother’s situation is unique. There is no one-size-fits-all adoption process. That is why, when choosing adoption, it is important to make an informed decision. We want your decision to align with your values and serve your and your baby’s needs. Professional guidance can help you navigate this complex journey.

Adoption Choices of Colorado is a reliable adoption agency licensed by the state. Since 2002, we have supported and guided birth mothers in Colorado. While we are eager to support you throughout your adoption journey, we understand there are many steps to this process. We will break down the adoption options that are available to you. This will help you make the best choice for you and your baby.

Private Adoption in Colorado: Personalized Plans and Full Support

Private adoption in Colorado involves the use of adoption agencies. Through a private adoption service, you will maintain autonomy over decisions regarding your baby’s adoption. This adoption option empowers you to create a personalized adoption plan that perfectly suits you and your baby. If you choose private adoption, you will also receive additional resources and support from your adoption agency.

Adoption Choices of Colorado provides you with an empathetic and all-encompassing adoption service. At Adoption Choices of Colorado, we offer the following services and resources:

• Face-to-face consultations with an adoption specialist to create your unique adoption plan, including your birth plan.
• The ability to choose your baby’s adoptive family.
• The possibility of maintaining contact with your child if you choose to have an open adoption.
• Financial assistance with housing, living, and medical expenses, if you are eligible.
• Counseling and emotional support during pregnancy and after the adoption process is complete.
• Legal support as you place your baby for adoption. 

Types of Adoptions in Colorado

You can choose from three adoption options: open, semi-open, and closed. The type of adoption you choose will depend on your preferred level of contact with the adoptive family. If you choose to have an open adoption, you and the adoptive parents will keep in touch. In addition, you will establish and maintain an ongoing relationship with each other. In a semi-open adoption, the adoption agency facilitates the interactions between both parties. This adoption option shares limited information between you and the adoptive parents. Lastly, in a closed adoption, there is no contact between you and adoptive parents. Both parties’ identities remain unknown to each other.

Public Adoption and Foster Care: Adoptions in Colorado

Public adoption is done through state-run adoption agencies, and it involves adoption through the foster care system. Know that public adoptions are not usually the birth mother’s choice. Private adoptions happen when a child is taken away from an unsafe household by the state. 

Through this process, you will work with a public adoption agency, the state, and an adoption attorney to place your child in foster care. Reunification is usually the goal of foster care. If reunification is not the goal, a family may foster a child before adopting them. That process is known as foster-to-adopt.  

In public adoption, unlike private adoption, you cannot choose your baby’s adoptive family. This lack of choice might be a potential challenge for you. Therefore, it is best to research thoroughly and seek professional advice before committing to public adoption. 

Choosing the Right Adoption Path for You

If you are experiencing an unplanned pregnancy, you may be considering giving your baby up for adoption. However, please understand that placing your baby for adoption does not mean you are giving up on them. Choosing adoption can be an overwhelming and complex decision. Adoption is not an easy choice, but it is a selfless way to provide your child with a stable home and bright future.

Evaluating your needs, resources, and values is essential when deciding which adoption route to pursue. Consider factors such as financial assistance, emotional well-being, and legal support. That way, when looking at your adoption options, you can choose the one that best suits your needs, aligns with your values, and offers your baby the life you want him or her to enjoy.

Understanding Your Adoption Options

When exploring your adoption options in Colorado, you will find multiple ways to start this journey. Regardless of the adoption service you end up going through, know you are not alone. Adoption Choices of Colorado is here to support and guide you through this process. We are available 24/7 to answer your questions and concerns. 

Being informed and aware of your options is key when choosing adoption. If you are considering adoption and need guidance creating your adoption plan, reach out to Adoption Choices of Colorado today.

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Adoption and Regret: Is There a Right Answer? 10 Mar 2025, 2:00 pm

Adoption and Regret: Is There a Right Answer?

By Nila Soleimani 

Regret is not predetermined. Individual circumstances and motivations shape the likelihood of regret, especially regarding adoption. There are reasons why you may or may not regret choosing adoption. Some factors include the type of adoption (open, closed, semi-open), support systems, and personal circumstances. 

During the adoption process, you could feel emotions such as grief, sadness, and doubt. These feelings are normal, and support exists to help you overcome tough emotions. Adoption Choices of Colorado is here to answer all your questions and provide support and counseling.

The Complexity and Challenges of Choosing Adoption

Choosing adoption is a tough decision. While you are giving a child a stable and loving home, you may still feel regret. However, you have to remember that placing your child for adoption is a selfless and brave decision. 

At Adoption Choices of Colorado, we can provide you with professional guidance and support. We will make sure you know all the adoption options so that you can make informed decisions. You are not alone in your adoption journey. Our support team has several years of experience working with adoption and birth mothers. We know how difficult the adoption process can be.

All Feelings About Adoption are Normal

You may ask yourself if you will regret placing your baby for adoption. Adoption is a great option to think about when you are going through an unplanned pregnancy. It is a chance for your child to access opportunities you may not be able to provide right now. 

Even if you know adoption is the best possible decision, you can still feel grief, sadness, and doubt about it. These are normal feelings you can experience during the adoption process. However, remember that regret is not inevitable. It is based on your circumstances, motivations, decisions, and actions.

Working with a Licensed Agency Can Provide you with Confidence to Make Your Decision

Adoption Choices of Colorado is a private, non-profit adoption agency in Colorado. We are licensed in Colorado and have been assisting birth parents, children, and adoptive parents in Colorado since 2002. We specialize in infant and newborn adoptions. Our staff has the experience and knowledge to help you with all your questions regarding unwanted or unplanned pregnancy. We are an adoption service with adoption specialists who have an empathetic approach to the adoption process. Our team can assist you with making your final decision on adoption.

The Adoption process with Adoption Choices of Colorado

While you may grieve giving your baby up for adoption, there are positive aspects of adoption. 9 out of 10 adoptees experience adoption’s positive impacts. This can include: a stable home environment, better mental and behavioral health, and success in personal and educational endeavors. 

We can help relieve your stress by providing access to many resources, including free counseling services. Additionally, we provide no-cost legal representation and help with unplanned pregnancy options for adoption in Colorado. We have birth mother support groups, and free and private counseling sessions conducted by trained professionals. If you are a pregnant woman seeking help with private adoption in Colorado, contact us today.  

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